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Many of us will experience a traumatic event at some point in our lives.  A traumatic event is one where you are in danger, your life is threatened, or where you see other people dying or being injured.  Examples of traumatic events include road traffic accidents, assaults and sexual assaults, being involved in a natural disaster such as an earthquake, witnessing or experiencing war, torture or being held hostage.

It is usual for a traumatic event to cause upset and distress.  Most people will recover with the support and care offered by family and friends and by using the ways of coping that they would normally use to deal with stress.  However, some people will experience distress that is more intense and longer lasting and may result in Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)

The main symptoms of PTSD are:

  • Re-experiencing – This is when a person involuntarily and vividly re-lives the traumatic event in the form of flashbacks, nightmares, repetitive and distressing images or sensations or physical sensations – such as pain, sweating, nausea or trembling
  • Hyperarousal – This means feeling on edge and always on the lookout for danger.  This can cause increased anxiety, panic attacks, irritability, anger, sleeping problems and difficulty concentrating.
  • Avoidance – This means avoiding reminders of the traumatic event such as places, people, media reports or avoiding talking to anyone about the traumatic experience.

Many people with PTSD try to push memories of the event out of their mind, often distracting themselves with work or hobbies.

Some people attempt to deal with their feelings by trying not to feel anything at all. This is known as emotional numbing. This can lead to isolation and withdrawal and in giving up previously enjoyed activities.

  • Negative changes in mood and thoughts – PTSD can also lead to changes in thoughts and feelings. For example many people become preoccupied with trying to understand why the traumatic event occurred and play it over in their minds looking for an answer. This can cause guilt or shame that it happened to them or that they could somehow have prevented it.  It can also shake beliefs about the world being a safe place to live.

Other reactions following a trauma include depression (or a worsening of previous depression) and dissociation.  Dissociation occurs when a person feels cut off from sensory experience.  They may experience short gaps in their memory or periods of depersonalisation or derealisation (feeling on the outside of things, disconnected, as if things aren’t real).

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Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder

Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is a term used to describe the changes that people experience following multiple or repeated traumatic events. Examples include childhood sexual, physical or emotional abuse, domestic violence, being held hostage and victims of torture or trafficking.  These experiences are interpersonal (caused by a person deliberately harming another person) and become anticipated rather than occurring “out of the blue”, causing a wide range of difficulties including problems in the following areas:

  • Difficulties with experiencing and managing feelings including intense anxiety, sadness, suicidal thoughts, anger, eating disorders, self-harm and substance misuse and sexual difficulties.
  • Difficulties with changes in consciousness such as nightmares, flashbacks and intrusive thoughts as well as forgetting traumatic events or having episodes of feeling detached from your thoughts or body (dissociation).
  • Difficulties with self identity and the way in which you see yourself.  People often describe feeling helplessness, shame, guilt, stigma and a sense of being different to other people.
  • Difficulties with relationships including difficulties with trust, assertiveness and in managing relationships with others.
  • Difficulties with health (somatisation). People who have experienced repeated traumatic events often have physical health difficulties including chronic pain, migraines, seizures, chronic fatigue or other long-term health problems.
  • Difficulties with systems of meaning: Experiencing repeated traumatic events from an early age can interfere with a person’s ability to find meaning in life and can lead to feeling hopeless, helpless, empty, despairing or living with chronic suicidal thoughts.

Treatment

Complex PTSD is likely to take longer to resolve and you are likely to be referred to a mental health professional to help with your recovery.  Treatment is usually carried out in three phases.  The first phase involves helping you to manage your current symptoms in the here and now and is referred to as developing safety and stabilisation.  If you are still being affected by trauma memories, you may then go on to talk about your experiences in more detail. This phase acknowledges the losses that have occurred as a result of the trauma, including lost opportunities and relationships.  However, it is important to note that improvement is possible without talking in detail about the past if you do not wish to.  Phase three involves helping you to connect with people, places and activities that may help you to continue to feel better.

Caring for somebody

Caring for somebody who has experienced complex traumatic experiences (traumatic experiences which occur repeatedly over time and usually within an interpersonal context for example childhood sexual abuse, domestic violence, as well as victims of persecution, torture and trafficking) can be difficult as they may have a number of concerning difficulties over a long period of time including difficulties managing their emotions, self-harm, depression, eating disorders, difficulties within relationships as well as flashbacks, nightmares and anxiety. Caring for friends or relatives who struggle with their mental health can have a negative impact on your own health and it is important to look after yourself.

There is more information about Complex PTSD

What Helps with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder

It is normal to experience upsetting and confusing thoughts after a traumatic event, but for most people this will improve naturally over a few weeks.  Most people are unlikely to require access to specialist mental health care.

You should visit your GP if you or someone you know is still having problems about four weeks after the traumatic experience, or if the symptoms are particularly troublesome.

Your GP will want to discuss your symptoms with you in as much detail as possible. They will ask whether you have experienced a traumatic event in the recent or distant past and whether you re-experience the event through flashbacks or nightmares.

Your GP can refer you to mental health specialists if they feel that you would benefit from treatment.

Treatments

The main treatments for post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) are psychological therapy and medication

Traumatic events can be very difficult to come to terms with, but dealing with your feelings and thoughts and seeking professional help has been shown by research to help in the treatment of PTSD. It is possible for PTSD to be treated many years after the traumatic event occurred which means that it is never too late to seek help.

Watchful waiting

If you have mild symptoms of PTSD, or if you have had symptoms for less than four weeks, an approach called watchful waiting may be recommended.

Watchful waiting involves carefully monitoring your symptoms to see whether they improve or get worse. It is sometimes recommended because 2 in every 3 people who develop problems after a traumatic experience get better within a few weeks without treatment.

If watchful waiting is recommended, you should have a follow-up appointment within one month.

Psychological therapy

If you have PTSD that requires treatment, psychological therapy is usually recommended first. A combination of psychological therapy and medication may be recommended if you have severe or persistent PTSD.

The treatment is carried out by trained mental health professionals who listen to you and help you come up with ways to help you resolve your problems. The main types of psychological therapy used to treat people with PTSD are described below.

Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT)

Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) aims to help you manage your problems by changing how you think and behave. Trauma-focused CBT uses a range of psychological treatment techniques to help you come to terms with the traumatic event.

For example, your therapist may ask you to confront your traumatic memories by thinking about your experience in detail. During this process your therapist helps you cope with any distress you feel, while identifying any unhelpful thoughts.  Your therapist can help you gain control of your fear and distress by changing the negative way you think about your experience. For example, feeling that you are to blame for what happened or fear that it may happen again.

You may also be encouraged to gradually restart any activities you’ve avoided since your experience, such as driving a car if you had an accident.

Eye movement desensitisation and reprocessing (EMDR)

Eye movement desensitisation and reprocessing (EMDR) involves making side-to-side eye movements, usually by following the movement of your therapist’s finger, while recalling the traumatic incident. Other methods may include the therapist tapping their finger or playing a tone.

Although it might seem a bit strange at first, there is research evidence to show that it can be effective in resolving some of the most distressing symptoms of PTSD. 

Group therapy

Some people find it helpful to speak about their experiences with others who are experiencing similar difficulties. Group therapy can be used to teach you ways to manage your symptoms and help you understand the condition.

Medication

Antidepressants such as paroxetine, sertraline, mirtazapine, amitriptyline or phenelzine are sometimes used to treat PTSD in adults.  A combination of medication and psychological therapy can be particularly helpful.

Living with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder

Post Traumatic Stress Disorder can make you feel unsafe and in danger even after the threat has passed.  It is difficult to recover if you are still in danger.  It is therefore important to identify areas in your life in which you feel unsafe and, where possible, take steps to manage these. Thinking through the areas of safety below may be helpful:

Emotional safety: Do you feel safe within your emotions?  Are the ways in which you are coping with your feelings safe or unsafe: for example are you numbing or shutting off from your feelings as you fear they will overwhelm you? Are you self-harming or using substances? are you experiencing suicidal thoughts?

Relationship safety:  Are the people around you supportive? Is there anyone who is taking advantage of you emotionally, sexually or financially?  Do you find yourself pushing people away if they come too close? Do you find it difficult to trust people?

Physical safety: Are you looking after yourself physically?  Are you eating regularly, getting enough sleep, attending regular health checks, taking regular exercise?  Are you taking risks with your health?

Environmental safety:  Is the area you live in safe?  Do you feel afraid to go out?  Did the traumatic event/s occur at home and you are constantly reminded of it? Or is the trauma still happening at home or nearby?

A mental health professional can help you identify areas of risk in your life and create a safety plan to manage these. 

Psychoeducation:  Finding out more about the impact that trauma has on the brain can be very helpful.  Understanding that your symptoms are not a sign of “being weak”  but rather your body and your brain trying to process, cope with and heal from what happened can be very powerful. It can be helpful for a mental health professional to help you understand how trauma is affecting you.  There is an information booklet from NHS Inform about how to cope with PTSD.  

Managing nightmares and flashbacks: Understanding why and how nightmares and flashbacks occur can help you feel more in control of your symptoms.  Although they can be intensely powerful and distressing at the time, it is important to remember that they will pass. Identifying your specific triggers can be helpful in making you feel more in control again.  Even if you feel that they occur “out of the blue” there may be subtle cues or reminders of the traumatic event such as a specific feeling or piece of music or smell which set them off.

Grounding: Flashbacks can make you feel as if the danger is still here.   Grounding helps focus your attention on one very specific thing at a time, pulling you back into the here and now.  For example,  smelling a strong, pleasant smell such as peppermint or lavender oil, identifying five things you can hear, touch or see, picking up an object and studying it intently using all your senses to describe it.  Some people find it helpful to make a flashcard to keep with them, reminding them of the current date and time and having a “safe” word or phrase on it. 

Talking or writing about what happened:  Many people find that talking about what happened in a safe environment with a trusted person can help them make sense of what they have been through. This is best done with the guidance of a mental health professional.

Recovery from PTSD can take time.  It is important to look after your physical health in the meantime by ensuring you are eating and drinking regularly and keeping physically active.

Looking after someone with…Post Traumatic Stress Disorder

Following a traumatic event

Immediately after a traumatic event the most important thing is to ensure that a person is safe from further danger and that their physical needs are taken care of including medical treatment if required. It is important for you to be guided by the person’s wish to talk. If they want to talk, be present and listen to them, providing comfort and consolation. Don’t pressure them to talk if they don’t want to. Encourage them to seek support from friends and family and point them towards information which explains that it is natural and normal to be upset and distressed at this time. Flashbacks, nightmares, an increased sense of threat and avoidance are normal in the early stages and most people will recover without needing further help. Encouraging people to keep to a gentle routine and look after themselves is important. However, if you become concerned that someone’s symptoms are not resolving after a month or that their distress is intense then urge them to seek help through their GP. 

Coping with flashbacks

If you are with somebody whilst they are experiencing a flashback it can be helpful to “ground” them in the here and now.  This means gently bringing them into the present by asking them to use their senses to describe what they can see, hear, or feel in the present moment. Smell is a very powerful way of doing this.  You can encourage the person to keep some favourite perfume or essential oil to hand. You can ask them to state their name, age and the current date and name three things they can see, feel and hear. Alternatively, you could ask them to hold an object such as a stone and describe it in great detail. Find out more about grounding techniques.

Managing a disclosure of other forms of trauma

If somebody discloses a traumatic event to you such as domestic violence or childhood sexual abuse it is important to listen and acknowledge what they are telling you. Hearing accounts of abuse can be distressing and confusing, particularly if it brings up issues for yourself. It is important that the person feels that they have been listened to and believed. Try to focus on them and how they must be feeling rather than your own response and gently encourage them to seek help if they want to. They can do this by contacting their GP in the first instance.

Complex PTSD

Caring for somebody who has experienced complex traumatic experiences (traumatic experiences which occur repeatedly over time and usually within an interpersonal context for example childhood sexual abuse, domestic violence, as well as victims of persecution, torture and trafficking). You can read a description of what Complex PTSD is. It can be difficult as they may have a number of concerning difficulties over a long period of time including difficulties managing their emotions, self harm, depression, eating disorders, difficulties within relationships as well as flashbacks, nightmares and anxiety. Caring for friends or relatives who struggle with their mental health can have a negative impact on your own health and it is important to look after yourself.

Further information for carers is available on the NHS Greater Glasgow and Clyde carers site

Further Information and Support

Archway Glasgow – provides services and support to men and women aged 13 and over who have experienced rape or sexual assault within the past seven days.

Call: 0141 211 8175

Assist – provides advocacy, information and support to women and men whose partners or ex-partners are appearing in Glasgow’s domestic abuse court. 

Call: 0141 276 7710

Breathing Space – free confidential phoneline you can call when you are feeling stressed or down. 

Call: 0800 83 85 87 

Childline – free national helpline for children in trouble or danger.  It provides a confidential phone and online counselling service for any child 24 hours a day.

Call: 0800 11 11

Combat Stress is a military charity specialising in helping ex-servicemen and women.  If you are serving or have served in the UK armed forces they run a 24 hour helpline.

Call: 0800 138 1619

CRUSE is a UK charity providing support and information for people who have experienced bereavement. They run a support helpline.

Call: 0845 600 2227 (calls costs up to 8p per minute, plus your phone company’s access charge per minute)

Rape Crisis – is a UK charity providing a range of services for people who have experienced abuse, domestic violence and sexual assault. They run a free helpline service every day from 6pm-midnight

Call: 0808 8010302

The Anchor, Glasgow Psychological Trauma Services.  This is a specialist mental health service within NHS Greater Glasgow and Clyde for people experiencing complex PTSD.  Referrals can be made by GPs or other health and social care professionals

Scottish Women’s Aid provide help and support to female survivors of domestic abuse. You can phone the domestic abuse helpline

Call: 0800 027 123

Victim Support provides support and information to victims or witnesses of crime.

Self Help Resources

There are individual self-help guides from Get Self help about PTSD and Flashbacks

BSL – Post Traumatic Stress Disorder

NHSGG&C BSL A-Z: Mental Health – Post Traumatic Stress Disorder

Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) is a type of anxiety disorder which you may develop after being involved in, or witnessing, traumatic events. A traumatic event is one where you are in danger, your life is threatened, or where you see other people dying or being injured.  Examples of traumatic events include road traffic accidents, assaults and sexual assaults, being involved in a natural disaster such as an earthquake, witnessing or experiencing war, torture or being held hostage.

It is usual for a traumatic event to cause upset and distress.  Most people will recover with the support and care offered by family and friends and by using the ways of coping that they would normally use to deal with stress.  However, some people will experience distress that is more intense and longer lasting and may result in Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). Symptoms of PTSD include nightmares relating to the event, avoidance of things that may remind the person of the trauma, flashbacks, feeling on edge and always on the lookout for danger and negative changes in mood and thought.

NHSGG&C BSL A-Z: Mental Health – Trauma

The situations we find traumatic can vary from person to person. There are many different harmful or life-threatening events that might cause someone to develop PTSD. A traumatic event is one where you see that you are in danger, your life is threatened, or where you see other people dying or being injured.

Please note that this video is from a range of BSL videos published by NHS Greater Glasgow & Clyde

It is normal in our lives that things or situations can sometimes make us feel scared or afraid. Sometimes we can even feel scared of things that we know do not actually cause us a real threat. Common things that people are scared of include spiders, snakes, needles, heights, small or enclosed spaces, flying, and being in busy environments.

A phobia is more pronounced and more intense than a simple fear of an animal, object, place, or situation.  When someone has a phobia, their life can become so disrupted that they are unable to go into particular situations or to come across particular objects. A phobia is a type of an anxiety disorder.  You may find it helpful to read more about Anxiety and other anxiety disorders such as Generalised Anxiety Disorder and Panic Disorder

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Signs and Symptoms of Phobias

When you or someone you know has a phobia, the anxiety can feel so intense that you may fear coming into contact with the thing that makes you feel anxious. You may find that you either avoid situations that you fear or you become extremely anxious in them. When someone has a phobia of something, they often notice changes to their thoughts (for example, noticing frightening thoughts such as “this is extremely dangerous”), their emotions (for example, feeling extremely anxious), and their behaviours (for example, taking precautions to avoid coming into contact with the feared thing).The fear is often so strong that it can impact on your day to day life.

If you have a phobia, you may also experience anxiety if you believe that you may come into contact with the feared situation or object. In some cases, you may find that you experience anxiety even when thinking about the thing that you are scared of. For example, if you have a phobia of spiders (arachnophobia), you may feel anxious when you come into contact with a spider, when you see a photo of a spider or when you think about a spider. You may also have thoughts that pop into your mind about spiders without trying to think about spiders. These are sometimes called “Intrusive thoughts”. Sometimes, your anxiety might lead to the experience of panic attacks. In addition, you may experience a number of unpleasant physical symptoms such as:

  • Racing heart rate
  • A sensation of a “thumping heart” (palpitations)
  • Difficulty breathing or fast breathing
  • Feeling sick or nauseous
  • Dizziness or feeling lightheaded
  • Trembling or shaking
  • Sweating
  • Dry mouth
  • Chest feels tight or painful
  • Confusion
  • “Butterflies” in the stomach
  • Feeling restless
  • Tingling or numbness in toes and/or fingers
  • A sudden need to use the toilet.

If you do not often come into contact with the animal, object place or situation that is the source of your phobia, it may not have as much impact on your day to day life. However, if you have agoraphobia (extreme fear of open or public places), it may seem much more difficult to live your life day to day. People who have a phobia can often also experience other mental health difficulties such as other anxiety disorders and depression.

Types of Phobias

There are two types of phobias. These are specific and complex phobias.

A Specific Phobia is a fear of a single object, situation or activity. These phobias often develop when a person is a child or an adolescent. For many people, these phobias can lessen as they grow older.

There are many different types of specific phobias. Some of the most common ones are:

  • Animals (such as dogs, insects, snakes, and rodents)
  • The environment (such as heights, water, and darkness)
  • Situations (such as flying, visiting the dentist, medical interventions, and tunnels)
  • Body-based phobias (such as blood, vomit, choking, injections, and injury).

A Complex Phobia is one that involves multiple anxieties. These phobias, therefore, tend to have more of an impact on a person’s day to day life. They also tend to develop when someone is an adult. Common complex phobias include:

  • Agoraphobia: This is a fear of situations such as open spaces, travelling alone, busy environments and public environments.   If you experience Agoraphobia, you may find that you fear going into situations where it would be difficult to leave or escape to somewhere safe, such as your home. This can lead to someone with Agoraphobia avoiding a lot of situations which can include leaving their house, using public transport, being in lifts or going to busy shops.  Often people who experience Agoraphobia can find it difficult to seek help and support as they find it difficult to visit their GP surgery or to leave their home for appointments.
  • Social Phobia: If you have a Social Phobia, you may have a fear of situations that are social or involve some kind of performance, such as a party or public speaking. A lot of people can find social situations difficult and they may feel shy or awkward.  That is a very normal way to feel.  If you have a Social Phobia, there will be a more intense feeling of fear or dread, and you may find that you often try to avoid these situations.  If you experience Social Phobia, you may worry that the way you act may seem unacceptable or embarrassing to others, or you may be worried about being judged negatively.  Sometimes people who experience Social Phobia can find it very difficult to seek support as they find it difficult to phone or meet people who might be able to help them.
What Helps

There is now a lot of research which has helped us to understand what can help someone who is experiencing a phobia.  There is also evidence that many phobias can be successfully treated. Sometimes, a person will decide that they do not want to or feel unable to address their phobia. These individuals may take a lot of care to ensure that they avoid the situation or object that they fear. 

Without treatment, people can develop what we call “safety behaviours”, such as avoiding drawing attention to themselves, planning ways to escape feared situations, or avoiding the feared situation or object.  While these behaviours are understandable and may make you feel that you are keeping yourself safe, these behaviours actually help to maintain the phobia and can make it worse over time.  Often, treatments focus on helping the person to understand their phobia, reduce their use of their safety behaviours and learn more helpful ways of coping with their anxiety. This is done in a way and at a pace that is agreed with the person experiencing the phobia.

If you would like to access treatment for your phobia, the first place you would normally visit is your GP surgery.  Your GP should explain all of your options to you and your views should be considered before choosing any treatment.  There are three main treatments that are most frequently recommended:

  • Self-help materials;
  • Psychological or talking therapies; and
  • Medication.

 Self-help Material

There are individual self help courses and materials that you may find online or that your GP may direct you to. These can help you to better understand your phobia.  These materials also often recommend ways to manage or cope with phobias.  As a result, the aim of these materials is to help you to take the first steps towards managing your phobia.  Your GP may also refer you to self-help groups where you can learn more about phobias with other individuals who are experiencing phobias.  There are a lot of resources available that can explain phobias and describe ways of managing them. 

Psychological or Talking Therapies

Talking therapies can help people with phobias. A healthcare professional will often meet with you for one hour each 1-2 weeks to help you to develop ways of coping with and managing your phobia.  The talking therapy shown to have the best effectiveness with phobias is Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT). CBT involves helping you to look at and challenge some of your thoughts which may be making you feel anxious and fearful of the specific situation or object. Therapy can also help you to learn new ways of dealing with the phobia. Your GP might refer you to a Cognitive Behavioural Therapist, a Mental Health Practitioner, or a Clinical Psychologist to help you with this.  You can read more about Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.

Medication

If you prefer not to try talking therapies or self-help materials, or if you continue to struggle with your phobia, your GP may discuss medication options with you.  Antidepressant medications are commonly used when people experience depression.  However, sometimes they also help to reduce the symptoms of phobias, particularly agoraphobia and social phobia, even if you are not depressed. Sometimes GPs will prescribe these to help with phobias.  It is important to remember that these do not work straight away and can often take two to four weeks before people notice a change.  If you visit your GP to discuss your phobia, they may also recommend benzodiazepines such as Diazepam. These often reduce symptoms of phobias and anxiety.  However, they are addictive, can make you feel drowsy, and can stop being as effective after a few weeks.  As a result, they are not a useful long term treatment for phobias.

Living with…Phobias

If you or someone you know is living with a phobia, you may notice an impact on their day to day life.  A phobia can make it very difficult for a person to live their life the way they used to or the way that they would like to.  If you have a phobia, you may experience significant distress and anxiety when you come into contact with the object or situation that you fear.  You may also experience anxiety if you believe that you may come into contact with the feared situation or object.  In some cases, you may find that you experience anxiety even when thinking about the source of your phobia. 

Sometimes, the impact that a phobia can have on a person’s life can depend on the type of phobia.  If you do not often come into contact with the animal, object place or situation that is the source of your Specific Phobia, it may not have as much impact on your day to day life.  However, if you have a Complex Phobia such as agoraphobia or social phobia, it may seem much more difficult to live your life day to day.

Looking after someone with…Phobias

Witnessing someone close to you living with a phobia can be very difficult to see.  It can be hard to know how to support a family member or a friend with any type of anxiety disorder.  It can also be difficult to see the impact it might have on their daily life, including a possible effect on their work or how they interact with other people.

If you are trying to care for or support someone with a phobia, it is important to be supportive and sympathetic to what they are going through.  Sometimes you might find it difficult to understand why they are so afraid of the source of their fear. It may not make sense to you.  However, it is important to remember that their fear and anxiety is real.  Individuals who experience phobias can find it distressing if they believe others do not understand them or do not take their difficulties seriously.

When reading about phobias, you may learn that avoiding situations or objects can make a phobia worse over time.  Sometimes, this might lead you to want to push your family member or friend to face their phobia.  It is important to remember not to put pressure on the person who is experiencing the phobia to do any more than they feel ready to do.  It can be very distressing for the person to be forced to do more than they feel comfortable doing.  Instead, it might be helpful to ask your family member or friend if there is anything you can do to help.  This might be things such as talking to them calmly about how they are feeling or doing slow, calming breathing exercises with them.

You may also find that you can support your friend or family member by encouraging them to seek treatment for their phobia.  This might mean supporting them to visit their GP or a therapist, or providing them with some information that you have found about phobias.  Remember, it will be up to the person with the phobia to decide when they feel ready to seek help from services.

Further information for carers is available on the NHS Greater Glasgow and Clyde carers site.

Further Information and Support

If you would like further information on phobias, you might find the following websites helpful. 

NHS Choices website provides further information on phobias including symptoms, causes and treatments, as well as the real life stories of people who have experienced a phobia.

Centre of Clinical Interventions also has some self-help workbooks that you can work through yourself

MIND also provides a booklet which gives information about phobias, including how to support someone experiencing a phobia.

Anxiety UKNo Panic and Triumph over Phobia are other online resources developed to help and support individuals who experience phobias and other anxiety disorders.

GP surgeries also often offer leaflets or booklets on a number of mental health difficulties including phobias.  They sometimes also offer information on treatments such as psychological therapy.

Acknowledgements

Understanding Phobias (2014) © Mind. This information is published in full at mind.org.uk

Phobias – what, who, why and how to help? (2008) © British Psychological Society

BSL – Phobias

A phobia is a type of anxiety disorder. It is an extreme form of fear or anxiety triggered by a particular situation (such as going outside) or object (such as spiders), even when there is no danger. For example, you may know that it is safe to be out on a balcony but feel terrified to go out on it or even enjoy the view from behind the windows inside the building. Likewise, you may know that a spider isn’t poisonous or that it won’t bite you, but this still doesn’t reduce your anxiety.

Someone with a phobia may even feel this extreme anxiety just by thinking or talking about the particular situation or object

Please note that this video is from a range of BSL videos published by NHS Greater Glasgow & Clyde.

In the same way that we all have physical health we also all have mental health. In much the same way as we experience ups and downs in our physical health, we can also face ups and downs in our mental health. We are all vulnerable to experience times in our life when we struggle to maintain a sense of balance and well-being which causes us to experience mental health issues. This can also be true in pregnancy where all women experience perinatal mental health – both good and not so good.

When it’s not so good it can also be known as ‘perinatal mental health problems’, ‘perinatal mental illness’ or ‘depression and anxiety in the perinatal period’. 

It is important to know that there is always someone you can turn to for help and support and it’s ok to tell your midwife/GP/health visitor if you’re struggling.

Pregnancy can be both an exciting and worrying time for parents-to-be. Pregnant women experience a range of physical and emotional changes, all of which may trigger low mood or anxiety. It’s completely normal to feel excited about your pregnancy but also have moments of feeling worried or scared. Pregnancy – and having a baby – is life-changing so it’s natural to experience a range of feelings including low mood or anxiety. Try making some small changes in your life, such as taking some time out for yourself to relax, talking about your problems or getting more rest or sleep, can usually improve your mood. The good news is that low mood will tend to lift after a few days or weeks.

Low mood and anxiety during or after pregnancy doesn’t necessarily mean that you have perinatal depression. However, if you feel that your condition is worsening and suspect that it may be progressing to depression, it is important to speak to your GP or Midwife. Signs of this happening include more frequent bouts of low mood, finding it difficult to improve your mood and the inability to feel happy.

Up to one in five women and one in ten men are affected by mental health problems during pregnancy and the first year after birth. Unfortunately, only 50% of these are diagnosed. Without appropriate treatment, the negative impact of mental health problems during the perinatal period is enormous and can have long-lasting consequences on not only women, but their partners and children too. However, this is not inevitable. When problems are diagnosed early and treatment offered promptly, these effects can be lessened.

Sometimes there is an obvious reason for low mood and anxiety during or after pregnancy, but not always. You may feel distressed, or guilty for feeling like this, as you expected to be happy about having a baby. However this can happen to anyone and it is not your fault.

It’s never too late to seek help. Even if you have low mood or anxiety or have been depressed for a while, you can get better. The help you need depends on how severe your illness is. Mild symptoms can be helped by increased support from family and friends.

If you are more unwell, you will need help from your GP and health visitor.  If your Low mood or anxiety is prolonged and severe, you may need care and treatment from a mental health service.

Myths about Perinatal mental health

Perinatal depression is often misunderstood and there are many myths surrounding it. These include:

  • Perinatal depression is less severe than other types of depression. In fact, it’s as serious as other types of depression.
  • Perinatal depression is entirely caused by hormonal changes. It’s actually caused by many different factors.
  • Perinatal depression will soon pass. Unlike the “baby blues”, perinatal depression can persist for months if left untreated. In a minority of cases, it can become a long-term problem.
  • Perinatal depression only affects women. Research has actually found that up to 1 in 25 new fathers become depressed after having a baby.

When does Perinatal mental health occur?

The timing varies. About a third of women with Perinatal mental health have symptoms which started in pregnancy and continue after birth. Post Natal Depression often starts within one or two months of giving birth.

 Acknowledgement: Royal College of General Practitioners Perinatal Mental Health Toolkit

More Information

What is Perinatal Mental Health?

Around 1 in 10 women will experience postnatal depression after having a baby. However depression and anxiety are equally as common during pregnancy. Most women recover with help from their GP, health visitor and midwife, and with support from family and friends. However severe depression requires additional help from mental health services.

The symptoms of postnatal depression are similar to those in depression at other times. These include low mood, sleep and appetite problems, poor motivation and pessimistic or negative thinking.

Two in 1000 women will experience postpartum psychosis. The symptoms of this illness can come on quite rapidly, often within the first few days or weeks after delivery, and can include high mood (mania), depression, confusion, hallucinations (odd experiences) and delusions (unusual beliefs). Admission to a Mother & Baby Unit (MBU) is advised for most women, accompanied by their baby. Women usually make a full recovery but treatment is urgently necessary if symptoms of postpartum psychosis develop.

What helps

The following advice on how it feels to be unwell and what was, and what was not, helpful, is from a member of the Maternal Mental Health Scotland (MMHS) change agents, people with lived experience of Post Natal Depression (PND). This member had PND after having their daughter two years previously. They were also diagnosed with anxiety & depression which was noted as potentially sparked from suffering from PND.

“What does it feel like to be unwell – uncontrollable, lonely, crazy, low, tired, lack of energy. The only way I could describe it, is to say how low and crazy I felt. I felt when everything went right and my baby was “settled” I had a great day but as soon as we had an unsettled day, the smallest thing would set me off into a downer of a mood that I felt I couldn’t shift. It felt like someone was controlling my mind and body and I was in a deep hole I couldn’t get out of. Horrendous and sad feeling. I had so much support and amazing family around me yet I pushed them all away and wanted no one.

“What was helpful ” – speaking to people I wasn’t close to. Finding a really helpful & understanding doctor who would take the time out and listen to my true feelings and understand the severity. Speaking to other mums who were going through the same & also advising my family on my feelings.

“What was not helpful ” – the first doctor I got tried to put it down to baby blues when I KNEW there was something wrong. I was told that having PND, it isn’t that common you would pick the problem up by yourself. I was in tears and broke down explaining that I isn’t want my baby anymore, I wanted to get in my car and drive as far away as possible and never come back, I wanted a different life.”

Living with…Peri-Natal Depression
Looking after someone with…Perinatal Depression

Involvement of partners and significant others

We will ask for your consent before sharing any information with friends, family members and carers.

Further information for carers is available on the NHS Greater Glasgow and Clyde carers site

Carers support

A carer is someone who looks after a partner, relative or friend who cannot manage without help because of illness, frailty or disability. They may or may not live together.

If you would benefit from support in your caring role, local carers services can help. They can provide you with help and support regarding a number of issues including access to respite, short breaks, information and advice on a wide range of topics, emotional support and access to carers support groups. To find information about your local carers service anywhere in Scotland please contact

The Carers Information Line

Telephone: 0141 353 6504

Email: info@glasgowcarersinformation.org.uk

Support for young people

  • YoungMinds is a leading UK charity committed to improving the emotional well being and mental health of children and young people.
  • Baby Buddy, urgent access to mental health services – available 24 hours per day
  • Working hours: Your GP can refer you to the local Community Mental Health Team (CMHT) or Crisis Intervention Team
  • Out of hours: Call NHS 24 on 111
  • Bluebell PND service Glasgow – 0141 221 1535
  • Crossreach
  • Home Start Glasgow North – 0141 9482289, email info@homestartglasgownorth.org.uk
  • NHSGGC Perinatal Mental Health Service

Your Midwife, GP and Health Visitor can offer support and advice.

BSL – Peri-Natal Depression

Postnatal depression (PND) affects around 10% of mothers. This is much more serious than the period post birth known as ‘baby blues’ which usually lasts between one to three days. PND can develop slowly and may not be noticeable until several weeks after the baby’s birth, or may continue on from the baby blues period. The symptoms of postnatal depression are similar to those in depression at other times. These include low mood, sleep and appetite problems, poor motivation and pessimistic or negative thinking. It can have a significant impact on the health and wellbeing of the mother and the child.

Please note that this video is from a range of BSL videos published by NHS Greater Glasgow & Clyde.

BSL – Postpartum Psychosis

NHSGG&C BSL A-Z: Mental Health – Post-Partum Psychosis

It is a severe episode of mental illness which begins suddenly in the days or weeks after having a baby. Symptoms vary and can change rapidly. They can include high mood (mania), depression, confusion, unusual experiences and strange thoughts. Postpartum psychosis is a psychiatric emergency. You should seek help as quickly as possible.

Postpartum psychosis can happen to any woman. It often occurs ‘out of the blue’ to women who have not been ill before. It can be a frightening experience for women, their partners, friends and family. Women usually recover fully after an episode of postpartum psychosis.

It is much less common than Baby Blues or Postnatal Depression. It occurs in about 1 in every 1000 women (0.1%) who have a baby

Please note that this video is from a range of BSL videos published by NHS Greater Glasgow & Clyde

If someone has Panic Disorder, they experience “panic attacks”, which seem to come on all of a sudden, for no apparent reason. In Panic Disorder, panic attacks can occur in a variety of situations e.g. at a friend’s house, walking down the street, looking after your grandchildren or whilst you are at home.

People have recurring and regular panic attacks. Over time, people are anxious anticipating having another panic attack and are fearful of the consequences of having panic attacks. To avoid having another panic attack, or to avoid feeling embarrassed in case they have a panic attack in front of others, people can withdraw from going out/doing things/seeing people. Panic attacks can occur in other anxiety conditions and can occur infrequently without meeting criteria for Panic Disorder.

Panic attacks are an intense feeling of anxiety characterised by experiencing at least four of these symptoms:

  • Trembling or shaking
  • Sweating
  • Hot flushes or cold chills
  • Numbness or tingling sensation
  • Breathing difficulties
  • Chest pain
  • Palpitations – “racing” heart
  • Feeling of choking
  • Dry mouth
  • Feeling sick or stomach pain
  • Feeling weak, faint, or dizzy
  • Feeling like you are losing control
  • Feeling that things are distant or that you “are not really there”
  • Fear that you are going to die.

Panic attacks start suddenly. The intense feeling peaks quickly but can typically last between one and ten minutes, however, people can feel anxious, fearful or drained for a longer period of time following this. These panic attacks can be described as a ‘false alarm’, where someone thinks that they are threatened when there is not a real physical threat.

People of all ages can experience panic attacks. Around one in 10 people can experience occasional panic attacks, which are often triggered by stressful events such as, difficulties in relationships, work demands or experiencing loss. It is also quite common for people with Panic Disorder to experience other mental health difficulties, for example, Depression or Agoraphobia (avoiding places; please see other pages for these conditions). If panic attacks are experienced consistently with only certain objects or situations, it may suggest a Phobia rather than Panic Disorder (see Phobias page). Panic Disorder can occur for a number of reasons which include; someone’s biological makeup, personality, ways that people have learned to deal with distress and in the context of stressful events.

More Information

What helps

Many people can experience a panic attack. However, if you experience repeated panic attacks and you are fearful about having other panic attacks, you most likely have Panic Disorder. It would be helpful for you to speak to your GP in the first instance. It is important to check with your GP that any of the physical symptoms associated with panic attacks are not due to a physical condition.

There are a number of treatments that are effective in treating Panic Disorder:

Self Help Materials

If you have mild difficulties, reading information about Panic Disorder may be enough to help you. Please see the ‘find out more section’ for self help materials.

Psychological Therapy (‘talking therapy’)

If your difficulties with Panic Disorder are having more of an impact on your day to day life, your GP might refer you to a Primary Care Mental Health Team or a Community Mental Health Team. You can also refer yourself to a Primary Care Mental Health Team in your area by searching for one on the internet.  These teams have a range of staff (for example, Mental Health Practitioners, Cognitive Behavioural Therapists and Clinical Psychologists), who are trained to help people with these difficulties. If you are having more severe difficulties with Panic Disorder, it would be best for you to work with a professional to engage in a structured “talking therapy”.  Cognitive Behavioural Therapy is a talking therapy that helps you to see the relationship between your thoughts, feelings, physical sensations and behaviours. By exploring and questioning your thoughts and changing some things that you do, this can help you to feel better. There is evidence to suggest that group work, internet-based interventions and one to one work with a therapist are effective in treating Panic Disorder. Again, based on how severe your difficulties are, this could involve engaging in 4 to 20 sessions. Each session usually lasts one hour.

Medication

Anti-depressant medication is often used to treat depression, however, there is evidence to suggest that anti-depressant medication is also effective in treating anxiety disorders including Panic Disorder. The National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE) produced guidelines suggesting that selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) and tricyclic antidepressants (TCAs) are the most effective anti-depressants in treating Panic Disorder. There can be a number of side effects of using anti-depressant medication, therefore it would be best to discuss this with your doctor.

Living with…Panic Disorder

If you have Panic Disorder it is expected that you will worry about having another panic attack. You might also worry about what the consequences of having a panic attack will be, for example, “will I lose control?” or “will I die?” You might find that as you are worrying about having another attack, you might not able to focus on work or conversations with others as well. You may want to avoid going out (see Agoraphobia in Phobia section) or doing certain things. You might notice that your overall anxiety/stress levels are higher. If you are older you might think that you should not be having these difficulties at your age. We know that having difficulties with your mental health is just as common at any age.

Looking after someone with…Panic Disorder

If someone has Panic Disorder they will be scared of having another panic attack. They might not want to discuss their difficulties with you or they may stop going out or wanting visitors. Breathing plays an important role in keeping panic attacks going. When people are anxious, their breathing changes which can cause other physical changes in their bodies for example, feeling light headed or an increase in their heart rate. If someone has a panic attack when they are with you, encourage the person to take regular, slow breaths for at least a few minutes. You could try giving them reassurance such as ‘I’m with you’ or ‘this feeling will pass’.

It would be helpful for the person experiencing Panic Disorder if you could encourage them to attend their GP, or if you were able to, you could offer to go with them. It would be important for the person to know that there is a range of treatments that can help with how they are feeling and that they are effective. You might want to give them some information on Panic Disorder which is in the ‘Find out more’ section.

Also, remember to look after yourself. It can be stressful supporting someone who is experiencing these difficulties.

Further information for carers is available on the NHS Greater Glasgow and Clyde carers site

Further information and support

This is a short handout on panic attacks and Panic Disorder from the Centre for Clinical Interventions.

The Glasgow Wellbeing booklet titled Panic Attacks includes information about panic attacks and self-help interventions:

The Centre of Clinical Interventions has a range of work modules, including Panic Stations, that you can work through yourself.

These are some self help work sheets that provide information about Panic Disorder and some techniques that you can use to help:

Useful contact:

No Panic – a voluntary charity which provides information, gives peoples accounts of living with Panic Disorder (and other anxiety difficulties) and has materials which you can purchase.

There is also information for people that are trying to support someone with these difficulties.

There is also a helpline so you could speak to someone – 0844 967 4848 – (Everyday 10.00am – 10.00pm, charge: 5p a minute + your access charge)

BSL – Panic Disorder

NHSGG&C BSL A-Z: Mental Health – Panic Attack

Panic attacks are sudden periods of intense anxiety which appear to have no obvious triggers or reasoning. They can happen when a person least expects it and can be very distressing and frightening for the person. They can be accompanied by physical symptoms such as a racing heart, feeling faint or dizzy, sweating, trembling, feeling shaky, breathlessness and agitation. The person may feel like they are losing control or dying. 

Please note that this video is from a range of BSL videos published by NHS Greater Glasgow & Clyde

The term “Anticipatory Care Panning (ACP)” has become “Future Care Planning” to reflect the broad range of topics which can and should be discussed as part of these conversations. All resources have been updated to reflect this, however the main content of resources and training remains the same.

There are different types of training available to help staff increase their skills and knowledge. All of our training is open to everyone and is aimed at giving staff a strong foundation from which to start conversations.

If you are a manager and interested training for your team, please contact us via ggc.HomeFirst@nhs.scot to discuss a bespoke session. These sessions can also explore how Future Care Planning can benefit your service.

The Online Overview (Future Care Planning E-module)

The aim of this module is to provide staff with a general understanding of the Future Care Planning process.

Some of this information may be familiar to you, particularly if you are already having Future Care Planning conversations with people – however it is always good to refresh your learning.

We have recently moved our E-module to the Microsoft SWAY platform and have updated some of the content. If you have any problems or questions please get in touch with us.

You can access the module here.

You can also complete the module via LearnPro if you have access. Search for GGC028: Anticipatory Care Planning.

Once you have completed the module you can complete the assessment, after which you will be sent a certificate to keep in your records.

Please email any feedback to ggc.HomeFirst@nhs.scot

Training Offers – Bite Sized Learning

These sessions are bite sized learning events for staff which focus on a specific topic to provide an overview. Sessions are less interactive, focusing instead on delivering information, however there is an opportunity to ask questions at the end of each session. They usually last between 30 minutes to 1 hour.

Previous sessions have been recorded and available to view in our “Past Events” section on our Events Pages.

We are currently working on a programme of bite sized learning sessions. If there is a topic you would like us to consider then please email at ggc.HomeFirst@nhs.scot

Future Care Planning Introduction

Everyone has a role to play in helping to have and record these conversations as well as access the information when necessary. This is a 1 hour online session will provide an overview of what Future Care Planning is, who it is for and why it is important to plan for future health and care.

Training Dates

To register please click on the session you would like to attend, this will take you to our booking page.

If there are no suitable dates please email ggc.HomeFirst@nhs.scot to register your interest and be the first to know when new dates are released.

Summary Walkthrough on Clinical Portal

Future Care Planning is key to providing good person centred care, and sharing this information between services ensures that the right decisions can be made. During this 30 minute online session we will show you how to access the summary on Clinical Portal, take you through each section and suggest information that can be included.

Training Dates

To register please click on the session you would like to attend, this will take you to our booking page.

If there are no suitable dates please email ggc.HomeFirst@nhs.scot to register your interest and be the first to know when new dates are released.

Rockwood Clinical Frailty Scale Overview

Identifying people as ‘frail’ can be misleading and often creates a picture of someone who has not aged well. People living within the ‘spectrum of frailty’ can be supported with timely and targeted interventions and if we screen people early enough, we can sustain and even reverse someone’s level of frailty.

We are encouraging all health and social care practitioners to screen for frailty by using the Rockwood Clinical Frailty Scale (CFS) and support people to have conversations about their future care.

During this online 45 minute – 1 hour session we will give an introduction to the CFS, examples of people at different points on the scale and discuss how the CFS can be recorded as part of the Future Care Plan.

Training Dates

To register please click on the session you would like to attend, this will take you to our booking page.

If there are no suitable dates please email ggc.HomeFirst@nhs.scot to register your interest and be the first to know when new dates are released.

Power of Attorney Overview

The legal parts of future planning can often be confusing, with lots of people not quite sure where to start. This online 45 minute session will explore how to get started with Power or Attorney and why this is so important.

Training Dates

To register please click on the session you would like to attend, this will take you to our booking page.

If there are no suitable dates please email ggc.HomeFirst@nhs.scot to register your interest and be the first to know when new dates are released.

Recording Future Care Planning Journeys (EMIS and CNIS)

Future Care Planning is key to providing good person centred care. Many services are now having and recording Future Care Planning conversations as part of their core ways of working.

In order to help us monitor uptake and improvement, services are also asked to track the Future Care Planning journey of individuals. One easy way to manage this is via Future Care Planning Codes on either the EMIS or CNIS platform for each patient.

Monitoring the status of people identified for Future Planning Conversations has been ongoing for sometime and through this process it has become clear that there is some confusion as to when each term should be used.

Come along to learn which codes should be used as well as a demonstration of how coding works on the EMIS and CNIS systems. Each session is around 30 minutes and is open to all staff across health and social care who use the EMIS or CNIS platform.

To register please click on the session you would like to attend, this will take you to our booking page.

If there are no suitable dates please email ggc.HomeFirst@nhs.scot to register your interest and be the first to know when new dates are released.

Training and Information for Care Home Staff

General training is available to all Care Home staff. This includes access to the Future Care Planning e-module and all our regular training offers and events. From time to time we will offer training specifically tailored to people working in Care Homes.

Frailty Overview and the Rockwood Frailty Scale

This session provides an overview of frailty – what to look our for and why it is important to screen for frailty and how we do this. We want to move away from labelling all older people as ‘frail’ and see it more as a ‘spectrum of frailty’ and if identified early enough, this can be improved with support.

This session last approximately 1 1/2 hours and includes opportunities for you to ask questions. 2 dates are available, both sessions take place online using MS Teams.

To register please click on the session you would like to attend, this will take you to our booking page.

Future Care Planning in Care Homes

Irrespective of the paperwork your Care Home uses to record resident wishes and preferences and no matter what your role is in the conversation, we all need to know a little bit about Future Care Planning – what it is, why it’s important to care home residents and relatives and how we go about it.

We’ll share the information that can be useful such as preferences regarding treatment and place of care, which will enable care home staff to make appropriate choices in emergency situations.

This session last approximately 1 1/2 hours and includes opportunities for you to ask questions. The session take place online using MS Teams.

To register please click on the session you would like to attend, this will take you to our booking page.

Plan More, Stress Less

Plan More, Stress Less

As part of our Plan More, Stress Less toolkit, we host an information session which covers all you need to know about getting yourself, and those you support prepared for any unexpected event including hospital admissions.

This session last approximately 1 hour and includes opportunities for you to ask questions. The sessions are online.

Topics covered in the session include:

  • Helpful paperwork
  • What to bring to hospital
  • What conversations we may have whilst in hospital
  • Planning for a successful discharge from hospital
  • Post-discharge support

Alongside this session we have created two resources which anyone can use to help them plan for any future hospital admission. This could be a planned admission, for example if someone is going to hospital for an operation or to have some tests. However these resources can also be useful if someone needs to go to hospital in an emergency.

If you have any questions or feedback about these resources please email ggc.HomeFirst@nhs.scot.

Realistic Conversations (Communication Skills Training)

In partnership with Effective Communication For Healthcare (EC4H), members of NHSGGC staff provide free hour-long online webinars where participants observe an interactive demonstration of a clinical conversation. Participants identify helpful communication behaviours and contribute suggestions to direct the conversation via the chat function.

Sessions run throughout the year and cover various themes such as Future Care Planning (ACP), Treatment Escalation Planning (TEP) and shared decision making conversations

For more information including future dates and registration links please visit the NHSGGC pages of EC4H.

Future Care Planning 2 hour Online Session (or face to face on request by team/service)

Future Care Planning

We have developed this training session to help staff reflect on the best way to incorporate Future Care Planning conversations into their everyday practice.

This session covers:

  • Identifying triggers for Future Care Planning Conversations.
  • How to plan for Future Care Planning Conversations and ensure you are prepared.
  • Future Care Planning Conversation – suggested topics to cover.
  • Identify barriers / challenges and ways to overcome these.
  • How to use systems to record Future Care Planning Conversations.
  • Where to access further resources for yourself and others.

The is a 2 hour session and is aimed at practitioners who have Future Care Planning conversations as part of their role. 

Participants must complete the Future Care Planning e-Module (check out the Online Overview section of this page) prior to attending this virtual training. 

Training can be delivered via Microsoft Teams. e would recommend that you download the Microsoft Teams desktop app before training. If you are joining the session on a browser then you will need to use either Google Chrome or Microsoft Edge (Internet Explore will not work).

You can watch this video about checking if your audio and video setting are correct (please note these instructions are for the desktop app). If possible we would also recommend that you join the session early to check you can access everything on the day.  

Training Dates

To register please click on the session you would like to attend, this will take you to our booking page.  

If there are no suitable dates please email ggc.HomeFirst@nhs.scot to register your interest and be the first to know when new dates are released.

Refresher Sessions

Refresher Sessions last 1 hour and are suitable for staff familiar with the topic but are looking for a quick overview and update.

Training takes place online via Microsoft Teams. We would recommend that you download the Microsoft Teams desktop app before training. If you are joining the session on a browser then you will need to use either Google Chrome or Microsoft Edge (Internet Explore will not work).

You can watch this video about checking if your audio and video setting are correct (please note these instructions are for the desktop app). If possible we would also recommend that you join the session early to check you can access everything on the day.  

To register please click on the session date, this will take you to our booking page. 

Training Dates

Future dates to be announced.

If there are no suitable dates please email ggc.HomeFirst@nhs.scot to register your interest and be the first to know when new dates are released. If you are looking for a session for your service/team, again, please contact the email above.

Further Training and Skills Practice

Communication is a skill which needs practice. There are lots of different courses and resources available to help you think about how to communicate with other. Here are some of our recommendations.

Face to Face Training Courses*

Sage & Thyme Communication Training

The MAP of Behaviour Change (Behaviour change for health)

*Please note that some of these course may not currently be running or may have moved to a virtual platform. 

Online Modules

We have created our own online module which gives you a general overview of Future Care Planning (also known as Anticipatory Care Planning).

There are 2 Learnpro Modules we would suggest. Please note you will need to have a Learnpro account to access these.

GGC 028: Anticipatory Care Planning

GGC 053: Palliative End of Life Care

The NHSGGC Primary Care Palliative Care Team run a variety of online and face to face training, including sessions on Future Care Planning, Communication Skills and DNACPR

Macmillan Learnzone Resources

Please note you will need to make an account. 

Suggested Courses: 

Changing children’s attitudes to death

Working with children pre-bereavement

Coronavirus: Communication and Difficult Conversations

Palliative and End of Life Care including Bereavement

Personalised Care and Support – Building on the Recovery Package

Supporting Carers: A Professional’s Toolkit

NHS Education for Scotland (NES) Resources

Please note you may need to make a TURAS account to access these resources. 

Suggested Courses:

Realistic Conversations – Shared Decision Making

Developing Practice Module 2

Building a Shared Understanding

Informed about palliative and end of life care

Other Resources

EC4H (Effective Communication For Healthcare)

Difficult Conversations – Talking About Death and Dying (Video)

SPICT Tools

Delivering Bad News Video – Irish Hospice Foundation

End of Life Aid Skills for Everyone (EASE)

EASE Online is a five-week course which is delivered via MS Teams and the learning platform Moodle.  It is open to all staff across NHS, HSCP, Primary Care, Care Homes and third sectors and members of the public – the course is designed to enable people to be more comfortable and confident supporting family and community members with issues they face during dying, death and bereavement. The course has been developed by the Scottish Partnership for Palliative Care.

This is not a clinical skills course and participants do not need to have any prior knowledge or experience of death, dying and bereavement.

Over 5 weeks we will explore different topics including;

  • Getting comfortable talking about death and dying
  • What death looks like in 21st Century Scotland
  • The role of Health and Social Care
  • Serious illness and frailty
  • Future planning
  • Medicines and treatments at the end of life
  • Active Listening
  • Bereavement and grief
  • Caring for the carer

You must be able to attend all sessions and commit to completing the online activities prior to each discussion workshop.

The course has limited places (12 participants) and will be offered on a first come basis. Once the course is fully booked there will be an opportunity to sign up to a waiting list and you will be informed if a space becomes available/when new cohorts are organised.

2025 Cohorts – to be confirmed

Please see link below to sign up to our waiting list.

To sign up to the waiting list and be the first to know when registration opens for future cohorts please follow this link – https://link.webropol.com/s/easewaitinglist

We want to work with carers to make sure that we are doing everything we can to support our patients and their friends and family. There are thing you can do to help us too.

The Plan More, Stress Less Toolkit

This toolkit is aimed at helping people think and plan ahead, helping to reduce stress in times of crisis.The toolkit contains 2 planning tools as well as the opportunity to attend a live online session which talks about what paperwork we can complete before a crisis arises, what actually happens when someone goes into hospital and how we can all work together to plan for a safe and timely discharge.

You can also read about some of the steps we can all take to help support patients when they come into hospital.

Before Coming to Hospital

We know that coming into hospital can be stressful for patients and their friends, family and carers. 

When someone has a planned admission we have an opportunity to ensure staff have the information they need to provide the best care possible. We can also make sure that carers can access support early and this can help relieve some of the pressure. 

Unfortunately, we know that a lot of admissions are not planned and this can add extra stress to the situation. However, there are some things that can help patients, their friends, families and carers prepare in case of hospital admission. 

Tools to Help You Plan

There are lots of tools to help you plan for different things that might happen in the future.

  • Anticipatory Care Plans
  • Planning for Unexpected Events
  • Power of Attorney
  • Carer Support Plans
  • Thinking About Wills
  • Supporting Someone at the End of Life

You can find out more information about all of them on the Planning Care webpages. You can also contact your local carers services.

What to Bring To Hospital

Documents and Personal Items

Whether someone has a planned admission or has arrived as an emergency, we have put together a list of things that would be helpful for someone to bring in as soon as possible.

  • A copy of the Power of Attorney (if you have one)
  • A copy of the Anticipatory Care Plan (if you have one)
  • A list of all medication
  • A copy of any medical documents you have
  • A few items of clothing (including pyjamas and underwear)
  • Some basic toiletries (e.g. toothpaste, toothbrush etc)

Anything else?

Also have a think about what brings the patient comfort. There are many different things that this could be, for instance:

  • A particular blanket or cushion
  • A doll or soft toy
  • Some type of special food or drink
  • A phone or tablet and charger
  • Some books, newspapers or magazines

If you are unsure whether or not to bring an item into the ward then speak to a member of staff. 

Making a “Grab Bag”

If someone has a long term condition and a hospital admission is likely, then it can be useful to make up a “grab bag” containing all the key items and documentation. This means you will know exactly where everything is and can bring it in quickly.

While Someone Is In Hospital

When someone is in hospital it is important that we can work with friends, family members and carers to ensure that patients receive the best care possible.

Person Centred Visiting

We understand the importance of encouraging and supporting people to stay connected to the people that matter most in their lives whilst they are in hospital.

In line with this, we are in the process of implementing Person-Centred Visiting across our inpatient wards. Person-Centred Visiting means that we will work together with patients, family members and staff to find arrangements that work for everyone.

Find out more information about Person Centred Visiting.

Helping Out While Someone Is In Hospital

Having a familiar face help with care can make some patients more comfortable. We also know that lots of family and friends find it reassuring to be able to help. Some activities that you could be involved with are:

  • mealtimes
  • personal hygiene/care (if appropriate)
  • exercising with the patient
  • helping during medical examinations (if appropriate)

If you would like to be involved in any activities then please speak to the nurse in charge and we will develop a plan with you.

Looking After Yourself

We know that looking after someone can require a lot of time and energy. You may feel that while the patient is in hospital you need to have a rest from your caring responsibilities. Your health and wellbeing is very important to us, so we will not put any pressure on you to be involved in the care if you do not wish to be.

What is an “Planned Discharge Date”?

We will give you an Planned Discharge Date (sometimes called the PDD) as soon as possible – this is the day that we think the patient will be able to leave hospital. This date may change, however we will let you know if this happens. We hope that by giving everyone this information it will be easier to plan for the patient coming home.

Discharge From Hospital

Things to Bring for Discharge

Before leaving, patients will need house keys, clothes, footwear and an outdoor jacket. Please help us by making sure these items have already been brought in.

Transport Home

You and the patient need to make your own transport arrangements to get home. We can arrange a taxi but we cannot pay for it. If patients need an ambulance for medical reasons then the ward will arrange this and tell you that this is happening.

Have a think about how the patient will get home and if you have any questions or concerns please talk to us.

Where to pick patients up?

Most patients will be moved from the ward to the discharge lounge and you can pick them up from there. Some patients might need to be picked up from the ward instead.

We will try to have most patients ready to leave hospital in the morning, however, sometimes it can take a bit longer to get everything ready.

Please talk to us the day before discharge and we will tell you where to pick up the patient and what time we think they will be ready to leave.

Medicine and Aftercare

When the patient is discharged they will be given a discharge letter, a 7 day supply of any new medication and instructions on any follow-up care that they need. We know that there might be a lot of information given to you.

Things to Think About

  • Do you and the patient know to use any new medications or equipment?
  • Does the patient need a fit note? (This is a letter from the hospital to give to an employer if the patient has missed work or will need to have some time off)
  • Have you or the patient been given a hospital discharge letter?
  • Are there new care packages starting?
  • Are there any follow-up appointments to go to?
  • Do you have contact information for any services you need to contact like social work, homecare providers and carers services?
Post-Discharge and Ongoing Support

Once the patient has been discharged it may take a while for everyone to settle into a new routine and adapt to any changes that may have occurred due to the patients’ medical needs.

Sometimes carers, friends and family members may find it difficult to adjust and feel a bit overwhelmed by their new caring responsibilities. This is perfectly natural and there is support available to help you.

Places to Find Support

Local Carer Support Services

The first thing we would suggest is linking in with your local carer services if you have not already done so. You will be able to speak with experienced staff who can help you decide the best way forward. They may also be able to link you in with peer support networks where you can meet people in the same position as you.   

Health and Social Care Professionals

We would also encourage you to speak to any professional staff who are supporting yourself or the person you care for. This may include GPs, community nurses, social work and a whole range of other support services. It is important that they know what is happening so that they can monitor the situation and offer help and support.

Getting a Work/Life Balance

If you are working, then it may be beneficial to speak to your manager to let them know what is happening and see if there is any support they can offer you. Some organisations have specific carer leave policies to help carers find a work/life balance. 

Looking After Yourself

Whatever you decide to do, remember it is really important to look after yourself. Sometimes carers feel lonely and isolated and this can affect their mental health. If you are struggling, then reach out to someone and ask for help and know that you are not alone. 

NHS Greater Glasgow and Clyde would like to thank you for all the care and support you provide others, it is greatly appreciated.

Being Diagnosed with BPD

The One Percent

BPD and Me

Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) is a common anxiety disorder which is thought to affect approximately 2 in 100 people in the population.

  • An obsession is an unwanted and unpleasant thought, image or urge that repeatedly enters your mind, causing feelings of anxiety, disgust or unease.
  • A compulsion is a repetitive behaviour or mental act that you feel you need to carry out to try to temporarily relieve the unpleasant feelings brought on by the obsessive thought.

Many people experience thoughts that they don’t like or don’t understand from time to time. For example, when holding a small animal you might have an image or thought about holding it too tight injuring it, you might think about what would happen if you drove onto the wrong side of the road or said something inappropriate in an important meeting. These thoughts don’t normally mean you actually want to embarrass or hurt yourself and the thoughts normally go away on their own. 

If you have OCD these thoughts cause lots of anxiety and they can be extremely difficult to ignore. You might find that you spend lots of time worrying about what your thoughts mean. You might also complete behaviours to try and stop your feelings of anxiety.

Not everyone who experiences obsessions will have compulsive behaviours but often compulsive behaviours are very subtle and feel like a natural reaction to obsessive thoughts. You might perform a behaviour that seems unrelated to your original worry, for example repeating a certain word or phrase to yourself to “neutralise” a thought.

Superstitious thinking

Often people with OCD can feel that thinking about certain things makes them more likely to happen. For example, you might worry that you shouldn’t think about an accident happening in case you feel responsible for it. This is called superstitions or magical thinking.

Imagine you were asked to think about someone you love and complete the sentence below by entering their name and then signing and dating it.

You would likely be very unhappy doing this and might refuse to do the task altogether. You might feel that you are “tempting fate” and would feel a terrible sense of responsibility if something happened to your loved one.

But does writing something on a piece of paper make it more likely to happen? What if you were asked to fill in this sentence?

Would you be able to claim part of the prize money if they won? Could you take them to court and demand money back? You would likely find it easier to fill in the second example than the first but the truth is you can’t control the world with your thoughts.

Below is a table of some common obsessions and compulsions:

Below are some links to questionnaires which assess whether you might have obsessive compulsive disorder

Do I Have OCD? – OCD Action 

OCD Self-Assessment – Anxieties.com

This diagram shows how your thoughts and feelings can lead to unhelpful behaviours and how these behaviours then make the thoughts worse.

Hoarding- although it is not always related to OCD, some people also have difficulties with hoarding. You might be having difficulties with hoarding if you find it very difficult to throw things away and end up with lots of things stored in a very chaotic way.

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What helps

The two most evidenced treatments currently for OCD are:

  • Medication – usually a type of antidepressant medication that can help by altering the balance of chemicals in your brain.
  • Talking therapy – usually a type of therapy called Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (or CBT) which helps you to change your thoughts, feelings and behaviours

Although lots of people benefit from psychological therapy alone, others combine medication and psychological therapy or only take medication.

If you are concerned that you may have OCD it is a good idea to meet with your GP who can guide you towards helpful services in your area.

Further information on treatment options for OCD is available at NHS Choices

There are a number of useful books and self-help materials available to help if you have OCD some of which are listed below:

Books

Break Free from OCDOvercoming Obsessive Compulsive Disorder with CBT (2011) by Dr Fiona Callacombe and Dr Victoria Bream Oldfield

Overcoming Obsessive Compulsive Disorder: A self-help guide using Cognitive Behavioural Techniques (2009) by David Veale and Rob Wilson  

Or

Stop Obsessing! How to Overcome your Obsessions and Compulsions (1991) by Edna B. Foa and Reid Wilson

There is growing popularity and the beginning of evidence to support another approach using mindfulness techniques. This can be used to complement other treatment approaches and is described in:

Mindfulness Workbook for OCD: A guide to overcoming obsessions and compulsions using mindfulness and cognitive behavioural therapy (2014) by Jon Hershfield and Tom Corboy

These are available to purchase on the internet and in bookshops.A good local library should also be able to lend you these books.

Websites

There are also very useful resources on the web which you can access:

What would a self-help programme involve?

If you choose to follow a psychological self-help programme, instead of, or alongside medication, here is an idea of the kind of approach you can expect.

You may be asked to think about how, when and why your difficulties started

For example,

  • Can you remember when they first started?
  • Were they a problem early on or did they only become a problem after a while?
  • Can you think what might have led to you developing a problem with obsessions and/or compulsions?
  • Did something happen around the time when you started to notice that they were becoming a problem? (this is sometimes called a ‘trigger’)
  • Why do you think they have not got better by themselves?

You may be interested to know that…

  • Some people with OCD have family members who have also had obsessions and/or compulsions- this could point to a genetic element, or it could be that it suggests we learn behaviours from those around us
  • Sometimes the problem becomes more noticeable at times of change, for example when leaving home or having a first child
  • Some people with OCD have an exaggerated sense of personal responsibility. For instance, they believe that if something bad happens they will personally be completely to blame for it, rather than there being many causes to most events.
  • Some people who have checking compulsions believe that they have a poor memory, and therefore need to check their actions many times over. In fact, there is no evidence that people with OCD have poorer memories than anyone else. However, they do often have less confidence in their memory, for example having a recurring thought or belief that ‘My memory can’t be trusted’. You may want to reflect on how to build confidence in your memory, and we will look at this further in a later section.

Take a moment to reflect on how the above may apply to you

My understanding of how my OCD Developed

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It is not necessary to find a cause for your OCD in order to change, but sometimes it can be helpful to think about how it has developed.

You may be asked to think about what is keeping your OCD going.

‘In CBT we believe that OCD continues because the strategies you may be using to try to tackle it are actually having the opposite effect’

If you check or repeat a ritual after an obsessive thought or image, you experience immediate relief from the distress or anxiety which the thought or image has caused. This can make you believe that your checking or ritual is working. So you want to keep using that method of making your anxiety go away. The problem with this strategy is that the relief from the anxiety does not last long. As soon as the obsession returns, the checking or ritual has to begin again. So not only the obsessions but also the compulsions and rituals become part of the problem.

Therefore the answer has to lie in finding a different response to the original distressing thought or image.

Take the example of a mother who lies awake at night, constantly with the image that she may inadvertently harm her children. She has never harmed anyone in her life and takes good care of her children who mean the world to her. This thought is completely out of character, yet she fears that it means something bad could happen to her children, or even that she could be responsible for it. Her strategy to cope with this is to make sure she stays awake to block out the thoughts and images, or she focuses on a spot on the ceiling to take her mind off her obsessions.

This might seem like common sense – of course, a mother would want to put any thoughts of her children coming to harm out of her mind. However what we know is that if we put a lot of effort into trying to block out thoughts, unfortunately, this can have the opposite effect.

Try this experiment:

Firstly, bring to mind a large pink caterpillar. Now I would like you to try very hard not to think of one.

What happened? Most people find that they can’t get the picture out of their head of a large pink caterpillar.

You can try this experiment with any intrusive thoughts or obsession that you may have. On Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday, try your hardest not to think about them. On Thursday, Friday and Saturday put less effort into not thinking about them. See what happens on each day. Does trying not to think about them make them less frequent or less distressing? Or more so?

Another important point is that most people experience upsetting thoughts at some point, such as the mother described above. These can include thoughts about harming others, behaving in a sexually or morally reproachable way, becoming critically ill, catching germs, leaving a door unlocked, or the gas turned on. The difference is that most people are able to dismiss these thoughts quickly, they do not dwell on them, neither do they put enormous energy into pushing them away or ‘neutralising’ them. They do not consider that these thoughts mean anything about them as a person, about other people, or about their environment as a potentially dangerous place.

Accepting thoughts as ‘just thoughts’ is key to overcoming OCD. If you can accept your thoughts and let them pass in their own time, neither dwelling on them, nor pushing them away you will take away the power they have over you. ‘Here you are, again, familiar thought’, you can say to yourself, ‘Or here you are again, my OCD’. No need to judge yourself, or the thought. No need to do anything special with the thought. Allow it to come into your mind, like a guest at your table, take a seat, and then leave in its own time. It may be the guest you never wanted, an uninvited guest, but just allowing it to be, and giving it no special attention, can, with practice, allow it quietly to leave of its own accord. Over time you will have a new strategy for managing OCD.

Take a moment to reflect on your thoughts or experiences trying out these strategies

Video courtesy of OCD-UK www.OCDUK.org

What else is involved in a CBT or self-help approach to OCD?

There are many elements to a full treatment of CBT for OCD. Considering the nature of your difficulties, how they have evolved over time, the meaning they have for you, and how you have tried to cope up until now are some of those elements. Another key aspect which you will find described in recommended treatments (eg NICE and SIGN Guidelines) is called ‘Exposure and Response Prevention’ or ERP.

What is ERP and how does it work?

‘Exposure’ means that in the treatment you are exposed to the anxiety you experience which is linked to your obsession. This is done in a gradual way.

‘Response Prevention’ means that you prevent yourself from dealing with your anxiety in your usual way- through your compulsions. So you prevent yourself from responding as normal, and instead let yourself feel the anxiety, and gradually learn that your anxiety will reduce over time even when you do not perform your rituals.

Depending on the nature, number and severity of your obsessions and/or compulsions, you may be successful using a self-help approach, or together with a therapist, they will tailor a unique intervention for you so that you can derive maximum benefit from treatment.

To follow a full self-help programme using an evidence-based model, we recommend you return to the list of recommended books and websites towards the beginning of this section.

If you feel you need the help of a therapist, please contact your GP in the first instance.

There is information at the bottom of this page if you require URGENT HELP

Living with…Obsessive Compulsive Disorder

If you have OCD it is likely that you spend time trying to avoid thinking about difficult thoughts that trigger your symptoms. For example you might:

  • Avoid certain situations or places
  • Ask other people for reassurance
  • Be on the constant lookout for worrying thoughts
  • Try very hard to block out certain thoughts or urges.

Although you might feel some relief from your anxiety symptoms when you engage in these behaviours, they actually make your OCD symptoms worse in the longer term. If you think back you might find that when your OCD difficulties started they were related to one or two specific thoughts or situations but over time have spread to other areas of your life.

This diagram shows how your behaviour might help in the short term but actually make things harder in the longer term. This is because acting like your worries are true makes them harder to ignore in the future.

You may be interested in reading some personal accounts of living with OCD: The following are books by two people with OCD:

The Man Who Couldn’t Stop: The Truth about OCD (2015) by David Adam

Because We are Bad: OCD and a Girl Lost in Thought (2016) by Lily Bailey

There are also detailed personal accounts at:

Find out more
Looking after someone with…Obsessive Compulsive Disorder

Information for spouses, partners and families

A recent article (Gomes et al 2014) has explored how those who live with a person with OCD can find themselves changing their behaviour to ‘work around’ the OCD. This has been called ‘family accommodation’ (FA). It includes things like providing reassurance, waiting for the person to complete their rituals, not doing or saying anything, tolerating the OCD behaviours, modifying their routine or the family’s routine, and participating in the compulsions. If the person you live with has decided they want to change, and try some self-help strategies or seek treatment, it seems to be important that those living with them also understand the principles of the treatment, for example exposure and response prevention, for the treatment to be as effective as it can be. It is important for family members to be as emotionally supportive and encouraging as they can be to someone who is trying to overcome their OCD, without helping to accommodate the obsessions or compulsions.

Therefore family members of those trying to change would do well to also familiarise themselves with the principles and aims of CBT for OCD.

There are also books written for those who live with someone with OCD:

Loving Someone with OCD: Help for You and Your Family (2014) by Karen J. Landsman

When a Family Member has OCD (2016) by Jon Hershfield

Spouses, partners and families can also find valuable information and support from the following websites:

Further information for carers is available on the NHS Greater Glasgow and Clyde carers site

Real life stories

My real life experience by Sandy Nisbet

In my battle with OCD, one moment in particular stands out to me. It was a Friday night in March 2012, and I was in the study, playing a Professor Layton game. It might seem like a regular moment, but I remember it fondly. For most people, this day would have been a cause for despair. My OCD had got so severe that I had just dropped out of university. I had just had my first meeting with a psychologist. Even playing a relatively tame video game had taken a huge amount of willpower, as my OCD left very little room in my head for anything else aside from horrible thoughts and unfounded worry. But as I sat there solving puzzles, I suddenly noticed the light at the end of the tunnel, however faint. I don’t know if the tunnel had become unblocked or I had just never noticed the light before, but I caught a fleeting glimpse of it and realised, you know what? I might have a chance of beating this after all.

My OCD took a form often labelled Pure-O – obsessions without overt compulsions. I never washed hands or checked door locks excessively. In fact my OCD never had “actions” at all. Instead, my head was full of horrible thoughts that made me sick with worry. Every moral fibre in my body cried out against these thoughts, but despite this (or perhaps you could say because of this) the thoughts become more prevalent, more detailed, more abhorrent to me. Pure-O can take a few forms, but for me, involved violent thoughts – thoughts of me attacking other people. These would never leave my head, despite how much I detested them. Now when I tell my story, this is normally the part where people take a couple of steps back. But let me explain. Despite how scary these thoughts sound, these thoughts, intrusive thoughts, are thoughts that everyone has. For most people, they are shrugged off as a random misfire of the brain (and rightly so). But Pure-O sufferers react with alarm. Where did that thought come from? Does this mean something about me? Am I an evil person? Could I act on these thoughts? These questions will ring a bell to most Pure-O sufferers. And like all OCD sufferers, they will have compulsions to attempt to get rid of these thoughts. I tried to rationalise against them, and figure out where they were coming from. But attempting to stop them only led to them getting stronger, as I gave them “negative importance”. As my OCD got worse, I lost three stones in weight in three months, I was getting as little as 45 minutes sleep a night, and it got to a point where leaving the house caused a huge amount of anxiety due to the thoughts that would trigger every time I walked past someone. It was a huge issue.

My OCD began in my final year of university – I was a Computer Science student. I had stayed on to do a Masters, and there was a lot less work to do than the previous hectic Honours year. This left my brain with more time to ruminate, and all it took was one intrusive thought to set off my OCD like a match in a flour mill. My degeneration was surprisingly fast, so I quickly went to my doctor to get to the bottom of it. While not diagnosing me with OCD, he was very understanding and sent me to the community mental health unit for a more expert opinion. There, over a number of generally unhelpful meetings, I was misdiagnosed, underdiagnosed and anything in-between. At one point I specifically asked if I had OCD, but told that as I “had no compulsions”, it wasn’t OCD. I was finally diagnosed with OCD by a clinical psychologist, three months after seeking help, and was put on the waiting list for cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT). It was at this point I was at my absolute lowest. I had been seeing a number of student and charity counsellors who were determined to treat me for depression, even after I got my diagnosis and explained depression wasn’t the issue. Frustrated by the waiting list and a lack of progress with the counsellors, I reached out to a private therapist. This was the turning point in my battle. She was gentle and understanding, and after a joint meeting with her and my mum, we decided dropping out of uni was the right choice. I already had a graduate job starting in four months, and my university had very graciously agreed to put forward an appeal for my degree. So I made the risky choice of leaving university, and started therapy.

While working with my therapist and the psychologist, I came to a better understanding of what these thoughts were – meaningless, and no indication of my character.  Through a variety of exposure exercises designed to trigger the thoughts – such as doing DIY, gardening and cooking – I learned through practice that these thoughts led to nothing. I began to rediscover joy in the simple things, often even more that I had before. Things, such as having a meal with my family, that OCD previously sucked the happiness out of. I had lived without them for a while, but now that I could experience them again, I loved them even more.

To my surprise, the university appeal came through, and I got a distinction, alongside an award for the best Masters student! And I started my job, as a software engineer. Six years later, I haven’t looked back. I know whether this is actually possible is a cause of many heated online debates, but I believe I have fully beaten OCD. While I still have intrusive thoughts (as everyone does), I can’t remember the last time I was bothered by them.

If you are fighting OCD, I have no magical cure – CBT is the way to go. But I would give three pieces of advice. The first is this: make sure your family understand what you’re going through. Once my mum understood she was my biggest supporter. If you can’t find the words to explain it yourself, arrange for a joint meeting with a doctor or therapist. Secondly, don’t give up your hobbies. It’s easy to stop pursuing them as OCD takes over your entire being. But fight to reintroduce these things, as they give relief, and help train your brain to think normally again. And when you’re caught up in something you love, you become blissfully unaware of your OCD. Thirdly, find something that makes you laugh. It’s difficult to avoid laughing at something you find funny, even when you’re in a pit. I attribute a fair bit of my recovery to watching old episodes of The Muppet Show, or Vic and Bob. Laughter is a positive emotion that can be hard to control – the perfect counterbalance to OCD.

OCD can be beaten. A full recovery is possible, but even if not, you can still live the life you want to with the right help. Never lose sight of this. It’s easy to think things will never change if you have spent months, even years as a slave to OCD. But they do change, and you can live a happy and rewarding life. As someone at the other side of it all, I can assure you it is a life well worth fighting for.

BSL – Obsessive Compulsive Disorder

NHSGG&C BSL A-Z: Mental Health – Obsessive Compulsive Disorder

Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) is a type of anxiety disorder. In this condition, the person suffers from obsessions and/or compulsions that affects their everyday life.

  • An obsession is an unwanted and unpleasant thought, image or urge that repeatedly enters your mind, causing feelings of anxiety, disgust or unease.
  • A compulsion is a repetitive behaviour or mental act that you feel you need to carry out to try to temporarily relieve the unpleasant feelings brought on by the obsessive thought.

If you have OCD these thoughts cause lots of anxiety and they can be extremely difficult to ignore. You might find that you spend lots of time worrying about what your thoughts mean. You might also complete behaviours to try and stop your feelings of anxiety.

Not everyone who experiences obsessions will have compulsive behaviours but often compulsive behaviours are very subtle and feel like a natural reaction to obsessive thoughts. You might perform a behaviour that seems unrelated to your original worry, for example repeating a certain word or phrase to yourself to “neutralise” a thought.

Some people can only suffer from obsessions, whilst others suffer from a mixture of both obsessions and compulsions.

Please note that this video is from a range of BSL videos published by NHS Greater Glasgow & Clyde.

Are you having trouble sleeping?

Many people experience sleep difficulties at some time in their lives. In fact, it is normal to feel that sometimes you have not slept well. It might be that you felt it has taken a long time to fall asleep or maybe you felt you tossed and turned all night.  A familiar feeling that can leave us feeling a bit tired and worn out the next day.

For some people, this experience of poor sleep or dissatisfaction with their sleep can last a long time. Sometimes people might describe themselves or their partner as having insomnia.  Let’s have a closer look at what would be considered a normal sleep pattern and when we might consider someone to have a problem with sleep or insomnia.  In addition, we will take a brief look at some other medical conditions that can cause sleep disruption. If you think you might have any one of these conditions, you should contact your GP.

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What is normal sleep?

Individuals vary greatly in terms of how much sleep they need however as a general rule, there are patterns that fluctuate as we age. The amount of sleep we need in general reduces as we get older and the typical adult sleeps between 7-8 hours per night and then in later life, sleep can become less consolidated at night time and on average older adults sleep for 6-6 ½ hours per night with some napping throughout the day.

So, we now know that on average, all being well, an adult should be sleeping for approximately 7-8 hours per day. Let’s look at what happens during that time asleep. Using specialist equipment that measures brain and muscle activity, researchers and scientists have been able to identify sleep cycles that are made up of 5 distinct stages of sleep; stages 1 to 4 and rapid eye movement (REM) sleep. A sleep cycle will last between 90 and 110 minutes and we tend to go through 4 to 5 sleep cycles per night.

What is insomnia?

So far we have been looking at what sleep is but what about when we don’t sleep. What is going on?

Occasional sleep disturbance is common and quite a normal experience familiar to us all. Everyone experiences difficulty getting to sleep or staying asleep at some time in their lives. This often occurs at times of change or times of stress. These problems usually sort themselves out and end up being short-lived, and once the stressor goes, so do the sleep problems. However, we know from studies that examine the occurrence of insomnia in the population, that about 10% of adults, that is 1 in 10 people, experience persistent sleep problems, and this can be as high as 1 in 5 (20%) in people over 65 years of age.

A widely accepted definition is supplied by the American Sleep Disorders Association (ASDA, 1997):

Insomnia is a condition where you have problems getting to sleep or staying asleep for 3 or more nights per week and persisting for at least 6 months. There might also be daytime mood and performance effects.

Source: based on the revised International Classification of Sleep Disorders, ASDA, 1997

People with insomnia often experience:

  • Difficulty falling asleep
  • Difficulty staying asleep
  • Frequent nighttime awakenings
  • Feeling very tired the next day.

The definition from the latest Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (American Psychiatric Society) is similar: this is the manual used by clinicians and researchers to diagnose and classify mental disorders. In the fifth edition, published in May 2013 (DSM-5), insomnia disorder is defined as a combination of both dissatisfaction with sleep and a significant negative impact on daytime functioning.

Dissatisfaction with sleep is further defined as difficulty initiating and/or maintaining sleep or non-restorative sleep, on at least three nights per week for at least 3 months, despite adequate opportunity to sleep. Negative daytime impacts can include significant fatigue, sleepiness, poor concentration, low mood, or impaired ability to perform social, occupational or caregiving responsibilities.

If you are interested in finding out more about your sleep difficulties NHS Choices has more information

Sleep Problems, Insomnia and other Sleep Disorders

Some insomnia is a natural consequence of a stressful period in a person’s life or leading up to a stressful event such as a job interview or making a presentation. Usually, once these events pass, sleep returns to normal.

On occasion, poor sleep can continue, and this can start a cycle where a person starts to worry about not sleeping. This can result in anxiety that makes it even more difficult to get to sleep or stay asleep. The more you worry, the harder it is to sleep.

So there are different drivers to Insomnia. Some are to do with how we cope with stressful situations, and others are to do with worry about the Insomnia itself.

Sleep Disorders other than insomnia

When talking about Insomnia, we are not talking about medical conditions that cause sleep problems. Advice should be sought from a medical practitioner in such cases. There are different types of sleep problems, and these are described below:

Circadian Disorder

Delayed sleep phase syndrome –this involves the experience of staying awake until late at night with problems initiating sleep and with waking in the morning. People with this feel sleepy even when waking at normal rising times, and feel that they sleep better when they go to bed late and get out of bed later in the morning.

Advanced sleep phase syndrome –this involves the experience of feeling sleepy in the evening and finding it difficult to stay awake until a normal bedtime. Typically people experience early morning wakening and sleep better when they go to bed very early and get up out of bed very early.

Sleep-related breathing disorder

Obstructive sleep apnoea – commonly snoring loudly, breathing can be irregular or have ‘pauses’, and sleep is broken with periods of brief wakening. People with this often experience feeling sleepy during the daytime and might have difficulty with low mood. This breathing problem can be linked to being overweight.

Agitated movement of legs and limbs

Periodic limb movement disorder –this is characterised by jerky movements of the limbs that interrupt sleep or repetitive movements during sleep. This can lead to tiredness during the daytime.

Restless leg syndrome –this is involuntary movement of the legs during sleep and this can also be associated with insomnia and/or being tired during the daytime.

Parasomnias (abnormal sleep behaviour)

  • Sleepwalking – this typically occurs during deep sleep and involves actions such as walking whilst asleep. As the person is in deep sleep during the behaviour, they are difficult to wake up and they do not usually recall the behaviour.
  • Sleeptalking – this can happen throughout stages of sleep and involves producing speech or speech-like sounds whilst asleep.
  • Night terrors – this refers to experiencing, whilst asleep, extremely upsetting emotions that are difficult to waken from.
  • Nightmares – these are dreams that are distressing and usually wake you up.

Narcolepsy

  • Sleep attacks  unexpected and uncontrollable bouts of sleep during the daytime.
  • Hypersomnia – excessive sleepiness and extended sleep.
  • Cataplexy – sudden loss of muscle tone in response to emotion.
  • Sleep paralysis – inability to move especially on waking from sleep.

Sleep disorders associated with medical or psychiatric disorders

Many medical disorders have sleep problems associated with them. Mental health problems can also affect sleep patterns and quality. These should also, therefore, be considered when you encounter sleep problems.

A psychological approach to understanding insomnia

A diagnosis is often helpful. It helps us to have a name for what is causing us distress. It can also help us think about what we might need to do to get better.

A psychological understanding of a problem is also very helpful. Psychologists use a process called formulation to help develop a detailed understanding of a person’s difficulty. A formulation will typically describe predisposing, precipitating and perpetuating factors.

Predisposing factors

These factors refer to those things in life that might have made you vulnerable to developing a particular problem. In relation to insomnia, this could include having always been a poor sleeper, having a condition such as ADHD or having a family history of poor sleep.

Can you think of any predisposing factors you may have that might make you more likely to be a poor sleeper?

Precipitating factors

This refers to “triggers” – what was happening at the time that contributed to you developing a problem. In relation to insomnia, examples could include a house move, being diagnosed with a health condition or family/work-related stress. A study published in 2004 found that 60% of patients with insomnia could identify a trigger for their sleep disturbance, and these tended to be around family, work/school and health (Bastien et al. 2004).

Take a moment to think if there are any changes in your life, or big events, that started around the time of your sleep problems. These might be ’precipitating factors’.

Perpetuating factors

This refers to those factors that keep the problem going or exacerbate it. For example, sometimes when we have a bad nights sleep, we might worry about it and this worry makes if difficult to get to sleep the next night.  We might then have thoughts that cause anxiety such as “I will never get to sleep”- such thinking, causes anxiety that maintains sleep difficulties. Alternatively, we might develop some coping behaviours such as having a nap throughout the day or drinking alcohol at night. These coping behaviours can actually keep the problem going as they disrupt the sleep routine.  Perpetuating factors, therefore, keep the problem going, even after the initial trigger might have passed.

Have you noticed that you have become more worried about getting enough sleep? What are your thoughts before bedtime? You might have changed some routines or be napping during the day to ‘catch up’. These might be ‘perpetuating factors’ that are maintaining your insomnia.

From Formulation to Intervention

Okay, so now you might have an idea as to what has caused your sleep problems but what can you do about it? Understanding sleep difficulties, keeping in you’re your own predisposing, precipitating and perpetuating factors can help you understand how to get better using an intervention called Cognitive Behavioural Therapy. This type of therapy is considered to be the gold standard treatment for insomnia and research has shown this to be the case. Typically, CBT focuses on the perpetuating factors; those thought processes and behaviours that might be maintaining the problem or making it worse.

The Bed-Sleep connection

When we are sleeping well, we have a strong bed-sleep connection. This means that we associate being in bed with sleeping. The very thought of going to bed induces feelings of relaxation and sleepiness. We start to engage in our sleep routines, sleepiness increases, we climb into bed and fairly quickly we fall asleep. The bed acts as a ’cue’ to sleep. As described above, some people may have difficulties with sleep that has weakened the strength of the bed-sleep connection. It could be that you have always been someone that does not sleep well. Or perhaps you grew up with parents that rarely slept well. If this is the case you might not have a strong bed-sleep connection. For you, the notion of bed does not induce sleepiness as powerfully as it does for others. Or, perhaps you have always been a good sleeper, however, something happened in your life that triggered poor sleep- you got a new job for example and this caused some anxiety. This might have lead to you lying in bed awake, feeling anxious, tossing and turning throughout the night. As this continues, the bed-sleep connection weakens. You start to associate the bed with lying awake and feeling anxious rather than being asleep. A goal of cognitive behavioural therapy for insomnia is to strengthen this bed-sleep connection. In this web-page, you will find various techniques to help you to establish this.

What helps – Things you can do to improve your sleep

Sleep Diary

Keeping a sleep diary can be a really helpful strategy that can help you develop a greater awareness of your sleep. The better you understand your sleep and it’s patterns and variations across the week, the more equipped you will be to address your sleep difficulties.  Keeping a sleep diary can also reduce distress about your sleep.  At times we might think “I never sleep” and this can make us feel frustrated and upset.  This leads to anxiety about sleep which in itself makes the sleep problem worse! Looking at our sleep diary can help us keep our thinking in check and remind us of the nights when we slept better.  Your sleep diary does not need to be precise so don’t worry about clock checking- it is just to give you a rough estimation of how you slept the night before. Try and complete it within the first hour of waking.

Sleep Hygiene

By changing some of our lifestyle habits and our environment, we can make significant improvements to our sleep. This is what sleep hygiene refers to.  It is sorting out the basics of good sleep. There are lots of practical things you can do to help you get a better night sleep.

Caffeine

Caffeine is a stimulant drug; this means that it perks you up and makes you feel more alert.  Caffeine can be found in drinks (e.g. coffee, tea and cola), food (e.g. chocolate) and medications.  Many people use caffeine to get going in the morning or to waken up in the evening.  Anyone who has had a difficult nights sleep will relate to wanting a strong coffee to get going!  The problem is, this stimulant can also keep you awake at night time, just when you should be winding down and going to bed.  The effect of caffeine can last for many hours, therefore, it is recommended to avoid it for 4-6 hours before bedtime.

Nicotine

This is another stimulant drug – it stimulates the nervous system. This means that rather than relaxing our bodies, it actually perks us up. This can have a negative impact on sleep, keeping us awake rather than helping us to fall asleep. The addictive nature of nicotine can further disrupt the sleep process as cravings can wake the body up.  Some smokers might be in the habit of waking up throughout the night to smoke, disrupting a healthy sleep routine.  If you are a smoker and you are experiencing sleep problems, it would be a good idea to try and cut down on how much you smoke and avoid smoking throughout the night. This is easier said than done. There is more information on stopping smoking.

Alcohol

Alcohol is a depressant drug and unlike a stimulant, this slows the body down.  Some people even report that it “helps” them sleep.  Unfortunately this is not the case.  Whilst alcohol can induce sleepiness and make it more likely that you will fall into a deep sleep, as the alcohol gets absorbed by your body, alcohol withdrawal starts that can cause you to waken or move into a lighter stage of sleep.  Side effects of alcohol include dehydration and the need to urinate and both of these things can cause you to wake up.  So, although alcohol might help you fall asleep, the sleep quality is poor and not restorative.  It is recommended that alcohol should be avoided for 4 hours before bedtime.

Diet

Both hunger or overeating at bedtime can disrupt sleep.  If you feel hungry before bed, a light snack can help and stop feelings of hunger causing wakefulness.  However, avoid a large meal before bedtime as the body has to work hard digesting food and this can disrupt sleep.  Also, food gives energy so choose a non-sugary snack to avoid a “sugar rush” at night time. 

Some people have reported that a warm milky or malty drink at bedtime can help promote sleep.  Avoid caffeinated drinks like tea/coffee or coke! 

If you are someone who wakens in the night and heads to the kitchen for a snack, try and cut this out.  The body can start to expect food in the middle of the night and this may increase night time awakenings.

Exercise

Physical fitness is associated with better sleep. A great way to improve sleep is to try and fit in some physical exercise to your day. People should aim to do 20 – 30 minutes of physical exercise, at least three times week.  This doesn’t mean you have to take up going to the gym, you could go for a walk, jog or a swim. Or what about doing something with a friend like a game of tennis or badminton?  Introducing exercise to your day can help you get that good night sleep, however, avoid doing it too close to bedtime as that can waken you up! Try and fit it in before the evening.

In addition to making small changes to our lifestyle, making changes to our bedtime routine and the sleep environment can also help improve your sleep.  Let’s have a look at what you can do.

Noise

Noise can disrupt our sleep: sudden banging, a baby crying or a car horn beeping can all waken us up, even from a deep sleep. However, we can also get used to noises in the background such as light traffic and the wind.  It can be worth having a look and a listen in your bedroom and trying to identify any noises that could be keeping you awake or disrupting your sleep. Does the boiler kick in at 3am? Is there something that beeps in the night?  Do your heaters creak as the heating comes on? Do you have a partner that snores? Can you make changes to this to ensure a silent night?  For example, some people find that wearing earplugs help.  There might be some noises that you can’t control, but trying out different relaxation techniques (see relevant section) can help.

Room temperature

Ideally your room should be around about 18 degrees Celsius. A room that is too hot or too cold can significantly disrupt sleep so get a thermometer and see if this helps.

Body Temperature

People who often report feeling too hot are more likely to have sleep difficulties. Although many people like to have a bath before bed to help them sleep, if this raises your body temperature, it might actually make sleep more difficult.  Having said that, a bath can be a nice part of a bedtime routine. Make sure and have it at least an hour before bed so that your body temperature returns to normal. A very heavy duvet or thick pyjamas might also raise your body temperature so consider these factors when making changes to your sleep environment.

Air Quality

Fresh air can help promote sleep. It might be an idea to open your window for a while before bed to let in some fresh air. Of course, bear in mind the time of year and temperature!

Lighting

Natural light levels influence the production of melatonin. This is a hormone that controls our body clock. When it is dark, melatonin production increases causing sleepiness and as natural light creeps in during the morning, this decreases the production of melatonin, reducing sleepiness. It is therefore important to consider light when making changes to your sleep environment. Ensure curtains are drawn and that as much light is shut out as possible. If you have thin curtains, putting a blanket across your window might help or alternatively consider wearing an eye mask. Keep artificial light to a minimum or not at all during the night time. Also, avoid looking at tablet/laptop devices before bed as the light that comes from these objects can inhibit the production of melatonin which can get in the way of feeling sleepy.

Bed Comfort

Feeling discomfort throughout the night is going to disrupt your sleep.  Consider the comfort of your mattress, pillow and bedding.  Is the mattress the right size, is it too hard or too soft?  What about your pillow?  Is it too thick or too thin, do you need two pillows or none at all?  Is your bedding clean and comfortable?  It is worth experimenting a bit here to find out what suits your own preferences best.

Make a list of some goals that you are going to put in place with regards to sleep hygiene.  What changes could you make to your lifestyle and to your environment to help you get a better nights sleep?

Developing a Sleep Routine and Unwinding Before Bed

It would be unrealistic to think that you can go to bed at any time and simply fall asleep. A good period of winding down can help the body and mind prepare for sleep. A consistent sleep routine helps create cues that lead to the body and mind winding down ready for bed.  We do this for babies, don’t we? Many people get their babes into an evening routine of “bath, bottle then bed” and we can see how such a consistent routine prepare the infant for bed. Adults need this too! It is a good idea to start your sleep routine a good 60 to 90 minutes before going to bed.  Try to first slow down and stop your activities and work and switch to relaxing activities. Adjust the lighting so that it is less bright. Perhaps have a bath before getting a light snack and having a read of a book.  Consider what you find relaxing and try to implement that into your day here. Then, once you are feeling sleepy, prepare for bed (e.g. lights out, lock doors, brush teeth).

Relaxation

Being in a relaxed state before going to bed is certainly helpful. Many people who have sleep difficulties find this difficult: as sleep problems develop, people can become anxious as they get ready for bed, wondering if they will manage to sleep that night.  If this is you, learning some relaxation techniques could be helpful. Relaxation does not always come automatically but it can be learned. There are many things that we do to relax and some of these are fairly active relaxation pursuits such as exercise.  Such activities use up energy leaving us feeling relaxed afterwards.  Other types of relaxation are more about easing the body and mind, slowing down and letting go. Activities of this type could include reading a book or having a bath. It might be helpful to write a list of things that you can do to help cause a state of relaxation and introduce these to your day or pre-bedtime routine.

Relaxation Techniques

In addition to these activities some people find that engaging in a relaxation technique, can help facilitate a state of relation and sleepiness. Please follow the links below to access relaxation techniques

Progressive Muscle Relaxation

Information on progressive muscle relaxation 

Mindful breathing

Information on mindful breathing

Meditation

Information on meditation 

These relaxation techniques can help to relax our bodies and our minds. There are other strategies that you can use to help you to learn to manage difficult thoughts and/or worries. Many people find that they can’t sleep because their mind does not stop. You might be worrying about what has happened that day, or what you need to do the next day. Try some of these techniques to help manage your thoughts/worries.

Putting the Day to Rest

Do you lie in bed at night and remember all the things you should have done but didn’t. Or suddenly remember something you need to do the next day? A helpful tool for this type of anxiety is to spend approximately 20 minutes in the evening thinking about your day and what is happening the next day and writing anything down that you need to do. Professor Colin Espie, an International Sleep Expert calls this putting the day to rest. He recommends following to help put the day to rest.

  • Set aside 20 minutes in the early evening, at the same time each night
  • Sit somewhere where you will not be disturbed
  • All you need is a notebook, a diary and a pen
  • Think about what has happened during the day, how you feel it has gone
  • Write down some of the main points. Put them to rest by putting it on paper.  Record what you feel good about as well as what has been difficult
  • Write a “to do” list
  • Now think about tomorrow, what is coming up, what you are looking forward to and what is troubling you
  • Write down the schedule in your diary if not done so already
  • Write down anything you are unsure about and make a space in your diary for when you can find out more about it
  • Use these 20 minutes to take control of what has happened and what is coming up. Close the book on the day
  • As you go to bed, remember that you have dealt with all that you can and that you have put the day to rest
  • Keep some paper by your bed so that if any new thoughts pop up, you can jot them down to be dealt with in the morning

Thought Blocking

Some people find that their mind really races at night time, flitting from thought to thought. Putting the day to rest can really help. Another technique to employ when in bed is “thought blocking”. This is a technique that stops you thinking of the annoying fleeting thoughts. What you do is repeat the word “the” every 2 seconds (say it in your head) and keep this up for about 5 minutes. This blocks out the unwanted thoughts with a word that is meaningless. It is therefore unlike to have an emotional effect and will therefore not cause arousal but rather boredom!  

Paradoxical thinking

When sleep does not come, we can become really preoccupied with trying to get to sleep. The more we try and fail, the more distressed and anxious we can become and the more we try and try to sleep! With sleep, the harder you try the less likely it is that sleep will happen. One method to overcome this type of anxiety is to turn things around and actually try to stay awake. Lie in bed, keep your eyes open and say to yourself that you are going to stay awake. As you start to feel sleepy, try and think about staying awake for a few minutes longer. Turning your thinking away from trying to sleep to trying to stay awake, can reduce the preoccupation with sleep that leads to distress and wakefulness. 

Re-evaluating some of your thoughts

Our thoughts can have a powerful effect on how we feel. If we are thinking negatively we can feel quite down or anxious. This, in turn, can impact upon our sleep as we develop anxiety about sleeping. Our thoughts about sleep are not always accurate and as we become anxious, out thoughts are more likely to become distorted and faulty.  To check in on our thoughts and to evaluate their accuracy, it can be helpful to keep a thought diary. 

Often where there is an emotion such as worry or sadness, our thoughts can become distorted, and are usually quite negative! If we write down how the thought makes us feel, and then stand back and re-evaluate that thought, we might come up with a more balanced picture.

You can use the diary below to try this. Write down your sleep thoughts and how these make you feel. Then evaluate the accuracy of that thought and see if you can write down a more balanced version of that thought. Again, consider how this new thought makes you feel. If you find this difficult, try asking someone to help you come up with a more balanced thought – this helps provide a different perspective.

Strengthening the Connection Between Bed and Sleep

As described earlier, improving that automatic connection made by the brain between bed and sleep, is an important part of overcoming sleep difficulties. By implementing many of the strategies described, you are more likely to get a good nights sleep. The more experiences you have of sleeping, the stronger your bed- sleep connection becomes. Here are some more tips to help build up that connection:

The bed should be for sleeping.  Avoid spending long periods of time reading or watching TV in bed.  Sexual activity is the only exception!

Go to bed when you feel sleepy-tired.  If you go to bed whilst you still feel wide awake, you may find your self tossing and turning.

If you have been having sleep problems for a while, aim to spend approximately a quarter of an hour getting to sleep. If you are still awake, get up and do something relaxing. This stops you spending a lot of time being wakeful in the bed. Return to bed once you feel sleepy tired. If again, you are not asleep after a quarter of an hour, get up again!  It is a good idea to prepare for this: ensure you have a nice and relaxing room to go to and have a think of what relaxing activities you might do at this time. It can feel lonely being up on your own to prepare.

Avoid napping throughout the day.  The daytime is for being wakeful and night time is for sleeping.  You want to ensure these associations (day-wake and night-sleep) are in place and are strengthened. Although you might want to nap, in general, this makes a sleep problem worse.  It weakens the bed – sleep association and also gets in the way of building up the need for sleep throughout the day.

Living with…Insomnia

The Impact of Insomnia

Mood

Insomnia can be a very isolating condition as the effects are not clearly visible. Symptoms of fatigue, poor concentration and low mood are felt by the person, but cannot be easily identified as difficulties in the eyes of others. Friends, family or carers can be dismissive of the impact or worry that insomnia causes for the individual, and this can make them feel even worse about the condition. They can feel isolated and sometimes dismissed when others also claim they have sleep problems as well (but are referring to lesser symptoms). In addition, the period when not awake can in itself feel very lonely for the person suffering the condition, and they can be limited in what activities they can do during this period. There is evidence that shows there is a big overlap in the number of people that suffer Insomnia that also suffer depression. It is difficult to determine which might cause the other if there is a causal link at all. This remains unclear.

Relationships

Relationships can be affected too. There is sensitivity about disturbing partners/close family, and increased sensitivity or guilt. Sometimes a partner may decide to sleep in a separate room so as not disturb the other person, such is their increased self-awareness or potential to cause arguments or disagreement. These fears and feelings were borne out in the comments made in interviews with a group who had insomnia and chronic pain. You may recognise some of these sentiments:

“Well I’m very private and don’t talk about my… lack of sleep at all…except to my husband. Well they’re (other people) just ignorant and it’s okay lets just, you know, that’s fine, we’ll just go along like that…”

“Well my good friends, they will be interested to know how I’m feeling. I don’t really expect people to want to know how I’m feeling.”

“This is the first time I’ve ever spoke about it, about sleep …even when I think about friends I haven’t spoke about that in connection with pain…I don’t find it easy to speak to just everybody.”

“I used to text her (my daughter) during the night and she used to say ‘dinnae text me during the night ‘cos my phone goes off’…”

“It’s boring really. You cannae do this, you cannae do that, you cannae even shove some washing in the machine and put it on ‘cos you’re annoying your neighbours then. You cannae do nothing.”

“…my husband is blessed with a very good nature and he is an angel really. He’s very good. I do my very best to keep him in a good, amiable mood and happy so we can both manage between us.”

“Yeh, I’m frustrated because I can’t sleep and I’m shouting at my mum on the texts and then I have to say I shouldnae have said that so I say ‘sorry’ and she says ‘that’s okay, am (I’m) your mum’ but I feel terrible and I shouldnae be doing that.”

You might also look at the Mood section of this website on ways to help, such as talking to friends and family about things.

Find out more

NHS

  • Information from the NHS on Sleepio
  • Helpguide.org information on sleep
  • NHS Choices information on sleep

Other services

There is an online Cognitive Behavioural Therapy course called Sleepio that has a growing evidence base for helping people over come sleep difficulties.  It is possible to receive this online course for free by registering to take part in their research project, details are available from Sleepio and the National Sleep Foundation (USA)

Acknowledgements

Espie, C. (2010). Overcoming insomnia and sleep problems : A self-help guide using cognitive behavioral techniques. London: Constable and Robinson.

Sleepio 

Looking after someone with…Insomnia

Those suffering insomnia can feel the symptoms of tiredness, loneliness, poor daytime functioning (concentration and motivation), and there is often low mood present too. The physical symptoms can be difficult to manage, but what can make things worse is the feeling that nobody takes their symptoms seriously, and that they are dismissed as ‘just having some sleep problems’. In reality, this can make sufferers feel not believed and affect their mood. They can feel misunderstood and isolated, even when around others.

If a loved one has Insomnia it is important to take them seriously, even if you can’t see any symptoms yourself. Direct them to this website where they can learn and identify what symptoms they have and whether this is actually insomnia, or another health condition that is behind their sleep problems.

On this Insomnia section, there are self-assessment measures they can use and even try some self-help strategies to get started with. Often simple changes to the bedroom environment or a good routine before heading to bed can make a big difference. Have a look at the other sections in this Insomnia section for some useful tips and strategies.

But remember, believing them is important. Take them seriously and show understanding. Unless you also have (or have had) Insomnia, don’t say you know what it’s like – this makes them feel like you are trivialising their problem. Say that you don’t know what it’s like, but that it sounds very hard to deal with, and that you’ll try to help them as much as you can. If you share a bed with them, don’t give them a hard time for getting up during the night or accidentally waking you. This will just make them more stressed and less likely to get to sleep. Be kind, supportive and show them you care. That can make a huge difference.

Further information for carers is available on the NHS Greater Glasgow and Clyde carers site

BSL – Sleep Disorder

NHSGG&C BSL A-Z: Mental Health – Sleep Disorder

Occasional sleep disturbance is common and quite a normal experience familiar to us all. Everyone experiences difficulty getting to sleep or staying asleep at some time in their lives. This often occurs at times of change or times of stress. Insomnia is a condition where you have problems getting to sleep or staying asleep for 3 or more nights per week and persisting for at least 6 months. There might also be daytime mood and performance effects.

People with insomnia often experience:

  • Difficulty falling asleep
  • Difficulty staying asleep
  • Frequent night time awakenings
  • Feeling very tired the next day

Please note that this video is from a range of BSL videos published by NHS Greater Glasgow & Clyde.

Generalised Anxiety Disorder, or GAD as it is commonly known, is a subtype of anxiety disorder. Anxiety is often described as a feeling of unease, worry, or fear that can range from a mild to severe feeling.  Anxiety is common and most people will experience some level of anxiety at stressful times in their life, for example when sitting an exam, going for a job interview, or having a medical test.

GAD is much more than ‘normal’ worry or anxiety and there are a number of key differences between experiencing GAD and the type of anxiety people experience day to day:

  • GAD is characterised by chronic worry for more than a six-month period, in which you feel anxious in a wide range of situations, as opposed to a specific event/situation
  • If you have GAD, you are likely to feel anxious a lot of the time, and this may feel out of control
  • If you are suffering from GAD you may not always be clear about what the cause of the anxiety is
  • You may feel ‘on edge’ or more alert to your surroundings
  • You may also find it incredibly difficult to control your worries and symptoms of anxiety
  • Often when you resolve one anxious thought, it will quickly be replaced with another issue if you are experiencing GAD.  

Generalised Anxiety Disorder can cause both physical and emotional symptoms and people may feel that their thinking patterns and behaviour have changed.  When someone has anxiety, they often notice changes to their thoughts (for example noticing worried thoughts such as “something terrible has happened”), their emotions (for example feeling extremely fearful), and their behaviours (for example avoiding situations that may cause anxiety, or seeking reassurance from others). 

However, like with other anxiety disorders, symptoms of GAD can vary from person to person, but can include psychological, emotional, and physical symptoms.

More Information

Psychological or Emotional Symptoms
  • Feeling restless or finding it difficult to relax
  • Feeling worried or on edge
  • A sense of dread
  • Racing thoughts
  • Difficulty concentrating or an inability to focus
  • Irritability
Physical Symptoms
  • Difficulty falling or staying asleep
  • Tiredness or fatigue
  • A noticeable increase in strength or frequency of heart rate (palpitations) or an irregular heartbeat
  • Muscle aches or tension
  • Shaking or trembling
  • Stomach ache, feeling sick, or loss of appetite
  • Excessive sweating
  • Shortness of breath

As there is not always a clear cause of the anxiety and because people’s symptoms vary so widely, it can be difficult to diagnose GAD. Your doctor might say that you have GAD if you have felt anxious most days over a period of around six months or may want to refer you to another service who specialise in understanding anxiety and other mental health conditions.

GAD is thought to be one of the more common anxiety disorders, with studies suggesting that around 1 in 50 adults will experience it at some point in their lifetime. As with many mental health conditions, the exact cause of GAD is not currently fully understood.  However, various risk factors may play a part. For example, genetic makeup may make people more likely to have an ‘anxious personality’ which can run in families and may put you at higher risk of developing GAD. Experiencing significant negative events in childhood may make you more prone to anxiety in your adult life. It may also be that a major stress in life could ‘trigger’ anxiety, for example, experiencing a significant health problem or bereavement, but unfortunately, the symptoms can persist after the trigger has gone.

What helps

As the symptoms associated with GAD are so uncomfortable and unpleasant, you might try to find ways of reducing the anxiety yourself. However, this might result in you avoiding situations that cause you to feel worry or dread.  It is common for people with GAD to withdraw from socialising, or only doing things in a certain way in order to feel safe. For example, you might withdraw from family and friends, or you might find work to be very stressful and then take some time off sick. Unfortunately, while this may reduce the anxiety in the short term, these actions can make you worry even more and can also lead to low self esteem and loss of regular ways of coping, which can have a negative effect on your emotional well-being in the longer term. For example, sometimes it might be helpful to take some time off work, however, this is not a long-term solution, and you may find it even more difficult to go to work after a long time off.

The most helpful thing that you can do if you think you might be experiencing GAD is to talk to someone about how you are feeling. Your General Practitioner (GP) is a good place to start and they will be used to talking to people experiencing similar symptoms. Your GP should be able to can provide you with information about the various treatment options available for GAD if it is confirmed that this is what you are suffering from. It is important to think about the pros and cons of each of these so that you know what to expect and are aware of any potential risks of side effects.

There are three main types of treatment for GAD:

  • Self-help resources
  • Talking treatments (psychological therapies)
  • Medications.

Self Help Resources

Your GP might direct you to an individual self-help course to help you to learn more about GAD and what you can do to help yourself feel better. This usually involves working from a book or a website with occasional contact with your doctor to monitor your symptoms and progress. Alternatively, you may be offered a place in a group with other people who have similar problems where you can learn how to tackle your anxiety. There are lots of helpful resources available to support you through this process.  For some good examples, please see the links in the ‘find out more’ section of this page.

Talking Treatments (Psychological Therapy)

Often people will try a type of self-help treatment for GAD in the first instance. However, if this approach does not work for you, or does not lead to an improvement in your symptoms, or if your symptoms are more severe, your GP may refer you for something called ‘talking treatment’. Talking treatments are a type of psychological therapy and offer some of the most successful treatment options for GAD. Talking therapy involves working through a process with a trained therapist to help you to understand the causes of your anxiety, and to help you to find strategies to help you to manage your symptoms. There are a number of different talking treatments available; however one of the most effective in treating GAD is Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT).  This approach helps you to understand the connection between your thoughts, your behaviour, and your GAD symptoms. This type of psychological therapy involves meeting with a therapist for around one hour a week over a period of a few months. During talking therapy you will develop strategies to cope which are designed to help you to manage your anxiety symptoms independently in the future. It can be described as adding various tools to a toolbox that you can keep and use later.

Medication

If you prefer not to try talking therapy approaches, or if you continue to struggle with symptoms of anxiety, your GP may offer you some medication.  A variety of different medications are available, however, it is important to discuss your symptoms fully with your doctor so that they can match a medicine to suit your individual needs. If you decide to take medication you will need to see your doctor regularly to assess the impact of the medication. As with all medications, there is the risk of side effects and it is important that you tell your GP if you experience side effects as they may be able to adjust your dose or prescribe an alternative.

The four main types of medication you may be prescribed to help you with your GAD symptoms are:

  • Antidepressants – these might help you to feel more calm, and may improve your sleep
  • Benzodiazepines – these medications will not deal with the cause of your anxiety, but they can help to reduce your symptoms until you are able to consider other treatment options. They should only be used as a temporary measure as it is possible to become dependent on these medications
  • Pregabalin – this type of medication can be used to treat GAD. It is normally used to treat epilepsy but is also licensed to treat anxiety
  • Beta-blockers – these medications are used less frequently in GAD as they only treat the physical symptoms of anxiety by reducing your level of physiological arousal. They are often more helpful in treating short-lived anxiety, like phobias. They are short acting which means that you will need to keep taking them, and they will not reduce any of your psychological symptoms like worrying thoughts.
Living with…Generalised Anxiety Disorder

GAD is different from ‘normal worry’ and it can be difficult to live with as the anxiety is prolonged and the level of anxiety can be severe. People with GAD feel anxious much of the time and this can affect your ability to complete day-to-day activities or basic tasks.  Because GAD is not specific to a particular situation or as a result of a particular event, you may feel that there is little respite from it and as though it has taken over, making it difficult to think about anything else. The fact that there is often no clear trigger for the anxiety can mean that GAD is difficult for people to understand and often not knowing what is causing you to feel this way can make you feel worse.  You may think that “things are out of your control”, “there isn’t a solution” or “I might always feel this way”. As a result, GAD can have a major impact on your general well-being, your emotional health, your ability to work, and may also affect your relationships. It is also common to have other conditions, such as depression or other anxiety disorders if you have GAD.

Find out more

NHS Choices website has more information about anxiety disorders including GAD.

Well-being Services South Glasgow website has lots of information about anxiety and includes a self help booklet & also provides video and audio guided relaxation exercises, which you can also use for free.

MIND is a mental health charity which offers a range of helpful information, guides to support and services, and stories from people who have lived experience of anxiety.

Anxiety UK is a charity with over 40 years of supporting people with anxiety. It offers information as well as telephone, email and text support.

The Centre of Clinical Interventions has workbooks about worry and anxiety that you can work through yourself at your own pace.

Looking after someone with…a Generalised Anxiety Disorder

It is important to remember that whilst suffering from Generalised Anxiety Disorder your family member or friend is not themselves, and this means that you may need to adjust your expectations and the way you interact with them.  Although you might not understand how they feel, or why they are feeling this way, it is helpful to try to adopt a non-judgemental approach rather than trying to dispel the anxiety with ‘logical’ arguments. There are a number of specific things that you can do which may help a friend or family member when they are suffering from anxiety:

  • Try to find out more about anxiety so that you can learn more about the condition yourself. This might help you to be understanding and supportive. Let your friend or family member that you are there to support them, and ask them what you can do to help – they might already have ideas about how you can support them or what they need from you. This might be things such as talking to them calmly about how they are feeling or doing deep, slow breathing exercises with them.
  • Stay calm and listen to your family member or friend’s wishes.
  • Try not to pressure them – seeing a family member or friend suffer from anxiety can be distressing and make you want to ‘fix’ it for them or find practical solutions. However, it can be very distressing for someone with anxiety to feel under pressure and it could even make them feel more worried.
  • Encourage them to seek help from their GP or access self-help resources.  It may be helpful to ask if it would help to accompany them to a GP appointment, or even call to organise one.  
  • Look after yourself – it can be stressful supporting someone else and it is important to take care of your own well-being.  This can help you to be in the best position to help someone else.

Further information for carers is available on our NHS Greater Glasgow and Clyde carers site

Real life stories

See Emily’s story about living with anxiety at University  

Hear Alex talk about the physical symptoms of anxiety and the impact they had on him 

Hear Zoe’s story about living with GAD after her Dad passed away 

BSL – Generalised Anxiety Disorder

NHSGG&C BSL A-Z: Mental Health – Anxiety

Anxiety is a feeling that we can all get but sometimes it can become excessive and stop you from doing the things you want to. These feelings can become a problem when they cause distress or make us feel uncomfortable. There are various types of anxiety disorders depending on how often they occur or if they are triggered by certain things. Examples might be when the feelings of anxiety can occur all the time for no apparent reason with lots of worrying thoughts and physical symptoms such as a racing heart, feeling breathless, knot in your stomach, increased sweating. This is called Generalised Anxiety. Sometimes these symptoms can occur without warning for short periods of time for no apparent reason. These are called Panic attacks. Sometimes the feelings of aniety can be brought on by specific things such as a fear of heights or crowded places or spiders etc. These are described as Phobias.

Please note that this video is from a range of BSL videos published by NHS Greater Glasgow & Clyde